Hey guys!
It's 4AM in the morning right now, I'm chilling out to some music and was thinking about this girl I like and thought I'd get some opinions from some fellow users around the web haha!
Let's put things into context:
I'm on a year abroad in Spain as an Erasmus and so far it's been just that; Erasmus lifestyle. We go out 4/5 times a week, travel around and what not.
We have a pretty big group of guys and girls and we always see each other when we're out and about.
But there's this one girl in particular that has really caught my fancy. It's kind of a crush I'd say. We went on a trip together (with some friends) and that was when I met her.
When we arrived back in the city we're studying in, we saw each other, exchanged numbers, texted around, etc.
Since then, I've been spending several nights out dancing with her in the clubs, but nothing ever really happened. On a particular night out, it was only as if she was looking at me.
Now I realise I've already written quite a bit (but that's just because I'm prolix haha!), but I'm not really taking this very seriously, I mean, it's not big deal, I'm just wanting to get some thoughts on this!
The thing is that I don't understand the girl; I can't figure her out. I mean, two months ago she texted me and asked me to go out for a coffee. We did and we had a chat for about an hour or so, was cool. A month later I decided to invite her to go get some drinks one Friday night. We ended up talking for six hours 'till around 4AM in the morning. Then as I said earlier, she spends literally hours dancing with me in clubs. All this, yet she's giving me no real signs of interest. That's what's confusing me. Friends have told me: "Surely if she's dancing with you for hours, she's interested." Yeah, fair point, but other than being with me for hours and us chatting and having laughs, I don't really see her making any kind of "moves", let's say. She also doesn't text/message me, it's always me who's messaging her first.
I have to add that I'm kind of a shy guy, although not as much as I used to be, but it was only a few days ago in the club that I started to get close to her and dance close with her. She seemed happy with it, but again, wasn't pushing it any further.
So yeah basically I'm wondering what you guys think.
What is she thinking? I really should make a move, which?
The thing is that it's kind of annoying to have this crush on this one girl which is clouding my vision when I go out clubbing and she's not there! So I'm thinking that I should make some sort of move and put things straight once and for all and see what the deal is, just not too sure on how to handle that!
I'm actually pretty tempted to ask her out again on one of these "dates" we had and have a straight up conversation with her haha. Because when I think about it, most of the time I'm messaging her it's to ask "So, are you out tonight?" (Although we do have some interesting conversations once we see each other.)
But yeah I'm gonna stop writing now hahah, enjoy the read and if wanna leave your thoughts, that'd be cool!
It's 4AM in the morning right now, I'm chilling out to some music and was thinking about this girl I like and thought I'd get some opinions from some fellow users around the web haha!
Let's put things into context:
I'm on a year abroad in Spain as an Erasmus and so far it's been just that; Erasmus lifestyle. We go out 4/5 times a week, travel around and what not.
We have a pretty big group of guys and girls and we always see each other when we're out and about.
But there's this one girl in particular that has really caught my fancy. It's kind of a crush I'd say. We went on a trip together (with some friends) and that was when I met her.
When we arrived back in the city we're studying in, we saw each other, exchanged numbers, texted around, etc.
Since then, I've been spending several nights out dancing with her in the clubs, but nothing ever really happened. On a particular night out, it was only as if she was looking at me.
Now I realise I've already written quite a bit (but that's just because I'm prolix haha!), but I'm not really taking this very seriously, I mean, it's not big deal, I'm just wanting to get some thoughts on this!
The thing is that I don't understand the girl; I can't figure her out. I mean, two months ago she texted me and asked me to go out for a coffee. We did and we had a chat for about an hour or so, was cool. A month later I decided to invite her to go get some drinks one Friday night. We ended up talking for six hours 'till around 4AM in the morning. Then as I said earlier, she spends literally hours dancing with me in clubs. All this, yet she's giving me no real signs of interest. That's what's confusing me. Friends have told me: "Surely if she's dancing with you for hours, she's interested." Yeah, fair point, but other than being with me for hours and us chatting and having laughs, I don't really see her making any kind of "moves", let's say. She also doesn't text/message me, it's always me who's messaging her first.
I have to add that I'm kind of a shy guy, although not as much as I used to be, but it was only a few days ago in the club that I started to get close to her and dance close with her. She seemed happy with it, but again, wasn't pushing it any further.
So yeah basically I'm wondering what you guys think.
What is she thinking? I really should make a move, which?
The thing is that it's kind of annoying to have this crush on this one girl which is clouding my vision when I go out clubbing and she's not there! So I'm thinking that I should make some sort of move and put things straight once and for all and see what the deal is, just not too sure on how to handle that!
I'm actually pretty tempted to ask her out again on one of these "dates" we had and have a straight up conversation with her haha. Because when I think about it, most of the time I'm messaging her it's to ask "So, are you out tonight?" (Although we do have some interesting conversations once we see each other.)
But yeah I'm gonna stop writing now hahah, enjoy the read and if wanna leave your thoughts, that'd be cool!
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