Ive been here in the past. Ive poste before. Id like to say today's issues leading me back are different but they really aren't.
We've been married for 7 years with two kids nowm weve had some nice times together, its true. -and weve been through
Some really difficult times together as well.
In any case, oir problems all stem from (at least i believe) me being needy when it comes.to support and affection, and her being unwilling or unable to show love.
Weve discussed it many times and she has put in some effort, but we always go back to 'this' within a week or two.
Most recently, when i tried to schedule counseling, she threatebed to leave, refused to attend, amd accused me of needing 'extreme affection'.
Im not a dr but i would bet money she has mental health issues. She has social issues and goes through phases of depression and highes. She also has several family members on psych meds for similar. ...but she refuses.to see a dr.
I want to point out that she insists there is nothing wrong with our marriage and says i am the only one with a problem.
..but when i withhold affection from her, like i have for the last two weeks now, she starts making comments about how she feels like a roommate. ...when in reality all im doing is matching her level of affection.
Im tired of it. I can honestly say that i would be done already if not for the kids.
If we seperate, she will take kids thousands of miles away
Back to her moms house and i dont know how ill handle that.
I feel like nothing when i am with her. Shes put me down many times and refuses to show love. ...amd no im not talking about sex. Im talking about looks, kisses, words, touching,hand holding,hugs,etc.
She says shes.not that type of person.
She says she is done trying to change
I say i should give up???
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We've been married for 7 years with two kids nowm weve had some nice times together, its true. -and weve been through
Some really difficult times together as well.
In any case, oir problems all stem from (at least i believe) me being needy when it comes.to support and affection, and her being unwilling or unable to show love.
Weve discussed it many times and she has put in some effort, but we always go back to 'this' within a week or two.
Most recently, when i tried to schedule counseling, she threatebed to leave, refused to attend, amd accused me of needing 'extreme affection'.
Im not a dr but i would bet money she has mental health issues. She has social issues and goes through phases of depression and highes. She also has several family members on psych meds for similar. ...but she refuses.to see a dr.
I want to point out that she insists there is nothing wrong with our marriage and says i am the only one with a problem.
..but when i withhold affection from her, like i have for the last two weeks now, she starts making comments about how she feels like a roommate. ...when in reality all im doing is matching her level of affection.
Im tired of it. I can honestly say that i would be done already if not for the kids.
If we seperate, she will take kids thousands of miles away
Back to her moms house and i dont know how ill handle that.
I feel like nothing when i am with her. Shes put me down many times and refuses to show love. ...amd no im not talking about sex. Im talking about looks, kisses, words, touching,hand holding,hugs,etc.
She says shes.not that type of person.
She says she is done trying to change
I say i should give up???
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