First post on this forum - but big user of forums on other subjects.
Kind of surprised there isn't a sub for this, to the effect of '(in)fertility' issues. Anyway, wife and I of not quite three years have been trying to conceive for about 6 months. She's always had some hormonal irregularities but has never been specifically diagnosed. So, we're struggling with uncertainty in that area.
We've been having sex generally every other day for the last few months, with a few periods of frustration killing her desire. She shared with me last night that she is disinclined to want to have sex as if she doesn't think there is a chance to conceive, it reminds her of the frustration of trying unsuccessfully. But, we had above-average sex last night and I really want to show her I appreciate her concession.
Asking wives/mothers, what is a good way to go about recognizing her efforts? It is a bit prickly as I don't want to put too much pressure on her, and she REALLY does not like having dialogue about our intimacy and gets frustrated whenever we have to talk about intimacy issues.
Any ideas on how to send the correct message, without a discussion? Thanks in advance!
Kind of surprised there isn't a sub for this, to the effect of '(in)fertility' issues. Anyway, wife and I of not quite three years have been trying to conceive for about 6 months. She's always had some hormonal irregularities but has never been specifically diagnosed. So, we're struggling with uncertainty in that area.
We've been having sex generally every other day for the last few months, with a few periods of frustration killing her desire. She shared with me last night that she is disinclined to want to have sex as if she doesn't think there is a chance to conceive, it reminds her of the frustration of trying unsuccessfully. But, we had above-average sex last night and I really want to show her I appreciate her concession.
Asking wives/mothers, what is a good way to go about recognizing her efforts? It is a bit prickly as I don't want to put too much pressure on her, and she REALLY does not like having dialogue about our intimacy and gets frustrated whenever we have to talk about intimacy issues.
Any ideas on how to send the correct message, without a discussion? Thanks in advance!
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