I have been with my husband for 14 years..he is 10 years older then me, we met when i was 22..i am now nearing the end of my 30's we have 4 children. Here is my problem, my husband has become obsessed with my past...before i started dating him 14 years ago and right after my divorce from my abusive first husband, i had a small 3 week nothing with a guy i did not care about..My current husband has known about this since we started dating (after having those talks couples should never have)..That 3 weeks has now been haunting me..my husband will not let it go, he asks me about it everyday...multiple times a day, asking me the same questions..he writes down new questions, he wants to know everything he said, did, he makes up senerios that never happened. i don't know what to do. I can't make a move in the house (he works from home) without him getting mad at me, if i wear a tanktop and i am cleaning and my top comes down a little, he comes over to me and pul ls my top back to the top of my neck, he doesn't like me to bend down to pick things up when we are out in public, he sometimes gets mad when i do it in our own home..god forbid if i bend down and get plumbers butt...he freaks out on me. in a resturant if my 2 year old drops a crayon im forbidden from picking it up..just this week i wanted to pick up my daughter from school (he usually does it) but he was on a call and busy, so i decided to get her knowing he would be mad...he ran outside after me and told me to get in the house, im almost 40 with 4 kids...i can't take this anymore, i don't know how to help him. Im losing my mind.
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