Have liked him a long time but he's playing russian roulette in bed. Break it off?

Have liked this guy for a while but we were seeing other people and nothing came of it until a couple of months ago. In effect, we've been dating for two months and in many ways he's great. We share a lot of the same values/outlooks, he's a gentleman (always opening doors/doing things for me), he cooks for me, gives me massages after a long hard day. He's talented, he's gorgeous... But the first time we had sex I was really taken aback by his attitude. Things were very heated; in fact I'd say I've never had stronger chemistry with anyone which is why I've been blindsided a bit - and he went to have sex without a condom. I stopped him and said 'are you joking?' and so he got a condom and that was that. I asked him about it after and he said for him it feels better without (well obviously..) and said he was 'clean'. He said he had no intention of coming inside me, but that wasn't the point and I said I wanted to use condoms - he said okay. A couple of times after we were both really turned on when in a sexy voice he asked if we could it without the condom just this once. Stupidly caught up in the moment this time I said okay and he, er, came elsewhere. But I felt angry at myself and I've realised he's not respected what I've told him at all. I now feel like this pressure will be there every time we go to do it and I've not been returning his calls etc so quickly because I don't know how to feel. Despite him saying he was 'clean' he hasn't had an STD test in a couple of years and said he would this week. I won't go on the pill again because it made me very sick/mood swing-y before and even if I do consider other birth control, I'm not sure he's worth it at this moment in time. Which is sad, because I really like him/who he is a person and how he treats me in every other way. Do I need to cut loose?

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