Oh Happy Day!!!!!
So my husband finally admitted that he hired and WENT THROUGH with the meeting with the body builder hooker who has the vagina and penis. I had all the proof of this- emails, pay pal, bank statements, phone records, etc. But he denied, at one point admitting he hired her, but never saw her at all. (quick history: he's been diagnosed with sex addiction/impulse control/anxiety/depression. Family and most friends think he only has a porn problem. But it's paid two-way live web cam sex and prostitution.) I'm the prudish witchy wife who kicked him to the curb for wacking off to the internet too much. Yeah, if only.
Six months of lying after being busted. Although this has been a problem since a teen I now know. Six months of knowing he was losing everything. He finally caved tonight and admitted it via text. Of course, this came after telling me that "everyone" we know, including my best friend, disapproves of my choice to divorce him and that I am selling my house. That my choices are irrational and not in the best interest of my children, blah blah blah. I was in tears and so mad. Then he finally admitted it after I again stated for the nth time that there is no chance of even a friendship with him if he does not come clean. We are about two weeks out from signing our dissolution.
I know there is so much more, but I wanted him to admit to this one that I had the hard evidence on. To admit to me, his family and friends, and mostly to himself.
I feel a lot less crazy (of course my two glasses of Malbec are helping with that tonight).
I asked him if he would now be telling his friends and family what he has done. To which he responds, "give me some time. I need to work on my anxiety and fear of what others will think about me before I can do that" :confused:>:):confused:>:)>:)>:):nerd:>:)>:)>:)
really?
Seriously?
WTF?
What. a. sh!t. show!
To which I say "but you don't care what everyone thinks of me because of my reaction to your choices. You let them believe I am making bad choices. F that."
He quit responding after that. It's a good thing that I don't give a crap what others think of me, so I can handle this heat if he has to be a puzzy and can't.
This is better than a soap opera. For some reason I just feel a bit vindicated. Had to share.
Rest assured, I am still divorcing his sorry azz.
So my husband finally admitted that he hired and WENT THROUGH with the meeting with the body builder hooker who has the vagina and penis. I had all the proof of this- emails, pay pal, bank statements, phone records, etc. But he denied, at one point admitting he hired her, but never saw her at all. (quick history: he's been diagnosed with sex addiction/impulse control/anxiety/depression. Family and most friends think he only has a porn problem. But it's paid two-way live web cam sex and prostitution.) I'm the prudish witchy wife who kicked him to the curb for wacking off to the internet too much. Yeah, if only.
Six months of lying after being busted. Although this has been a problem since a teen I now know. Six months of knowing he was losing everything. He finally caved tonight and admitted it via text. Of course, this came after telling me that "everyone" we know, including my best friend, disapproves of my choice to divorce him and that I am selling my house. That my choices are irrational and not in the best interest of my children, blah blah blah. I was in tears and so mad. Then he finally admitted it after I again stated for the nth time that there is no chance of even a friendship with him if he does not come clean. We are about two weeks out from signing our dissolution.
I know there is so much more, but I wanted him to admit to this one that I had the hard evidence on. To admit to me, his family and friends, and mostly to himself.
I feel a lot less crazy (of course my two glasses of Malbec are helping with that tonight).
I asked him if he would now be telling his friends and family what he has done. To which he responds, "give me some time. I need to work on my anxiety and fear of what others will think about me before I can do that" :confused:>:):confused:>:)>:)>:):nerd:>:)>:)>:)
really?
Seriously?
WTF?
What. a. sh!t. show!
To which I say "but you don't care what everyone thinks of me because of my reaction to your choices. You let them believe I am making bad choices. F that."
He quit responding after that. It's a good thing that I don't give a crap what others think of me, so I can handle this heat if he has to be a puzzy and can't.
This is better than a soap opera. For some reason I just feel a bit vindicated. Had to share.
Rest assured, I am still divorcing his sorry azz.
Put the internet to work for you.
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