I have posted on here before.
My wife goes to lunch with a co-worker who is her boss at least once a week. They are both sexually attracted to each other and they have been going to lunch regularly for 8 months. Around November they started talking sexually to each other at work and through texts.
I finally voiced my concerns and she said she would stop going to lunch with him. That didn't happened. She says they are just friends and that she isn't going to do anything.
Well if this was the first time and nothing had ever happen then I would back off a little. However this isn't the first time and I'm not as trusting as before. She continues to see him and believes there is nothing wrong with it. She doesn't think that it's disrespectful or anything. It's her friend and she is going to do what she wants. Those were actually words she has said. She guess around at her job telling people I'm an a-hole because I bring it up every week but she leaves out that part that she wants to have sex with him.
She has threatened me twice that should was going to do it the next time they went out if I didn't shut up and grow up.
I don't know but she has cheated before and she has walked our on our family before. I say our family because she left the kids with me and was gone until the other guy dropped her after he was done. I forgave her for that and the past is that past. All that's in my other post.
Any advice is helpful. If important wrong and being controlling or an a-hole please let me know.
By the way I do love my wife and she is the most beautiful women in the world to me.
My wife goes to lunch with a co-worker who is her boss at least once a week. They are both sexually attracted to each other and they have been going to lunch regularly for 8 months. Around November they started talking sexually to each other at work and through texts.
I finally voiced my concerns and she said she would stop going to lunch with him. That didn't happened. She says they are just friends and that she isn't going to do anything.
Well if this was the first time and nothing had ever happen then I would back off a little. However this isn't the first time and I'm not as trusting as before. She continues to see him and believes there is nothing wrong with it. She doesn't think that it's disrespectful or anything. It's her friend and she is going to do what she wants. Those were actually words she has said. She guess around at her job telling people I'm an a-hole because I bring it up every week but she leaves out that part that she wants to have sex with him.
She has threatened me twice that should was going to do it the next time they went out if I didn't shut up and grow up.
I don't know but she has cheated before and she has walked our on our family before. I say our family because she left the kids with me and was gone until the other guy dropped her after he was done. I forgave her for that and the past is that past. All that's in my other post.
Any advice is helpful. If important wrong and being controlling or an a-hole please let me know.
By the way I do love my wife and she is the most beautiful women in the world to me.
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