I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and honestly it hasn't been great. We are both 20.
Inbetween 6-8 months he would dump me every so often, having a change of heart after and asking for me back 1 hour-1 day later. After a year he began to just stop caring. He didn't come to my birthday party, he wouldn't see me more than once every 2 weeks, he wouldn't text or call, he would do drugs/smoke.
Eventually after a year and six months I found out he had been cheating on me (with the prettiest girl in town) and he left me. At the same time we had just found out I was pregnant and he told me I had to have an abortion and he refused to support me- I did and he didn't. He used to send me pictures hanging out with girls at midnight every night. At the end of the summer he ended up begging for me back and promised everything would change, I agreed.
For the next 4 months he did make an effort. But now it's got worse again. He lies, he hides stuff, he doesn't contact me, I always feel like I've been put last. I tried talking to him, and he promised it would change. We have had that conversation at least 3 times a week. At one point we began to take our anger on each other physically- pinching or pushing each other. Eventually he went too far and gave me a black eye, we agreed to stop and how disgusted we were. He hasn't stopped and now if he gets mad at me he will lash out.
When he get angry he also tells me that I deserved it all last summer and that he hates me. When I try to leave him he won't let me- he begs for me to stay and give him one more chance. He promises it will all change and tells me how much he loves me.
I need advice on what I can do to change so we argue less. Or advice on what I can to make everything better.
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