My husband and I have been married for 3 years, together for 6. He's never had a very good track record with staying faithful, and I probably shouldn't have married him in the first place if I'm being honest with myself. Anyway, it's usually nothing physical, but he will text girls or talk to them on Facebook. He flirts and says sexual things to them. A little over a year ago, he left me and had a sexual relationship with a coworker. He refused to come back and wanted a divorce. I chased for awhile, but once I finally went to counseling on my own and told him I was going to be fine he changed his mind and wanted to come home. I gave in because I didn't think we should throw everything away just two years into our marriage. I got pregnant soon after, and I don't think we ever really worked through everything. He told me he would never do it again, that he didn't know why he did it in the first place. I had our baby, and recently, I found some flirtatious m essages with a girl on his phone. I confronted him, and he swears it was just him trying to catch someone in a lie. I'm having a hard time believing it. Last night, I found messages with yet another girl. It was not sexual, but I guess you could say they were bonding over one of my husband's interests that I'm not into. I've gotten to the point where it doesn't surprise me to find these things, and I'm not as hurt by it. We're haven't been intimate for more than 6 months. I don't even like the thought of being intimate with him because I don't feel like I can trust him. I don't think I can do this anymore, but he supports me. I'm a stay at home mom and full time student. I have been looking for a job but haven't had any luck yet. I guess I'm just looking for advice or maybe someone who has gone through this before. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm just not happy.
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