My husband and I have been together a couple years. Very active sex life - 3-4x a week. We watch porn together from time to time, and we even get on cam from time to time to see how many viewers we can get. Its fun and we don't show our faces.
My husband was previously in a sexless marriage. He admitted to me that he frequently went on cam alone to get some attention (since his wife at the time wasn't giving him any). I've asked him NOT to do this without me. In my mind I think if he is satisfied with our marriage and sex life he doesn't need to get attention elsewhere. I caught him doing it once a few months ago, then yesterday he admitted that he did it again.
I'm upset for a couple reasons. First he told me he wouldn't and he did. Am I being too harsh expecting him not to? And second, I see this as a slippery slope. If he feels he isn't getting enough attention from me that he needs to cam without me in front of others what is next?
Do some men need acknowledgment that they are desirable from others? I'm not sure where to go from here...Thanks
My husband was previously in a sexless marriage. He admitted to me that he frequently went on cam alone to get some attention (since his wife at the time wasn't giving him any). I've asked him NOT to do this without me. In my mind I think if he is satisfied with our marriage and sex life he doesn't need to get attention elsewhere. I caught him doing it once a few months ago, then yesterday he admitted that he did it again.
I'm upset for a couple reasons. First he told me he wouldn't and he did. Am I being too harsh expecting him not to? And second, I see this as a slippery slope. If he feels he isn't getting enough attention from me that he needs to cam without me in front of others what is next?
Do some men need acknowledgment that they are desirable from others? I'm not sure where to go from here...Thanks
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