Quick history. Ex pursued divorce and it was completed in 2012. Two children ages 7 and 5. Ex has kept tabs on my private life via online stalking by using fake social media profiles, asking friends of mine and even befriending ladies I've been talking to. She has also insisted on maintaining contact with my family and bad mouthing me to family. I have limited contact to only co parenting and even though she has stated she feels that we shouldn't have mutual friends she continues to insist on being friends with my family members. She has recently caused drama within my family by insisting on going to my sister's wedding and when I and my mother expressed displeasure to my sister my ex became verbally abusive to myself and my mother accusing us of immaturity and being undeserving of having my sister in our lives since we didn't want her at the wedding. I'm at loss on how to handle her seemingly controlling behavior and push her out of my private lif e. I've taken the steps of changing privacy settings on all my social media and asking friends and family to avoid discussing me should they communicate with her. She has a live in bf who has been living with her since before the divorce and claims to have moved on however it seems that she still spends time keeping tabs on me. I would like insight into whether there is something I'm doing or not doing that is causing her to feel the need to keep tabs on me. I do tolerate things that I feel I shouldn't for the sake of my kids as I fear that she will use them to hurt me. Recent example is her telling my kids that she was extremely sad and cried because I hurt her feelings by not wanting her to go to the wedding. Thanks for your insight.
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