First things first, I would never cheat which is partly why I feel so guilty for even having feelings for anyone else. Long term boyfriend, 4.5 yrs together, never been with anyone else, and he is a lovely lovely person. However, recently developed a strong attraction to someone else but not in the physical sense (I just mean its not because he is better looking if anything the opposite) who makes me laugh, and is a lot more similar to me in terms of sense of humour/some shared interests and views.
To make matters more confusing he is also with someone but from his behaviour I think he likes me too. I am really aware this may be a case of the grass is always greener and I don't mean to ditch my current boyfriend to try and make a go of it with this new guy.. but I worry we shouldn't be together if I am constantly thinking about someone else, as its really unfair. I am not really sure what I am asking, just any advice you can give would be appreciated! Or have you ever been in a similar situation and what did you do? I can't talk to anyone as all my friends know the people involved too well. Thanks for reading!
To make matters more confusing he is also with someone but from his behaviour I think he likes me too. I am really aware this may be a case of the grass is always greener and I don't mean to ditch my current boyfriend to try and make a go of it with this new guy.. but I worry we shouldn't be together if I am constantly thinking about someone else, as its really unfair. I am not really sure what I am asking, just any advice you can give would be appreciated! Or have you ever been in a similar situation and what did you do? I can't talk to anyone as all my friends know the people involved too well. Thanks for reading!
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