I've known this girl for a month now.
We went out once - two weeks ago for dinner to an italian place. Before that, she was really, i mean extremely talkative and she used a lot of emoticons and stickers and really laughed a lot to my unfunny jokes. But then after a while she ceased to do any of it. Her replies took longer, got shorter, never initiated the conversation and she stopped putting emoticons.
Then I asked her out for the second time, and she said we need to talk, and she told me that she's not ready for a relationship (she's 15, I'm 17), and that we're both busy so it's not a good idea to start a relationship at this point.
Now we're having a one week holiday, and all of a sudden she's initiating the conversation again and is again really talkative. She laughs a lot again and starts using emoticons and stickers etc. I don't really care now if she's interested in me or not. If she is, I'm ready for a relationship, but even if she isn't I will be cool.
But I still am not sure where this is heading to. The impression I got was that we had chemistry in the beginning, but then I was too available and it killed the attraction. Now that we're away for holiday and I'm not really available, she's back to me again. What do you think?
I suggested a casual meeting tomorrow for which she said yes with no hesitation, so I'll see her tomorrow anyway, but I wanted to get some opinions beforehand.
I made it really clear that I like her, so unless she's interested in me again, I don't think she'd be so talkative again, but could it also be, that she's trying to liven up the friendship?
We went out once - two weeks ago for dinner to an italian place. Before that, she was really, i mean extremely talkative and she used a lot of emoticons and stickers and really laughed a lot to my unfunny jokes. But then after a while she ceased to do any of it. Her replies took longer, got shorter, never initiated the conversation and she stopped putting emoticons.
Then I asked her out for the second time, and she said we need to talk, and she told me that she's not ready for a relationship (she's 15, I'm 17), and that we're both busy so it's not a good idea to start a relationship at this point.
Now we're having a one week holiday, and all of a sudden she's initiating the conversation again and is again really talkative. She laughs a lot again and starts using emoticons and stickers etc. I don't really care now if she's interested in me or not. If she is, I'm ready for a relationship, but even if she isn't I will be cool.
But I still am not sure where this is heading to. The impression I got was that we had chemistry in the beginning, but then I was too available and it killed the attraction. Now that we're away for holiday and I'm not really available, she's back to me again. What do you think?
I suggested a casual meeting tomorrow for which she said yes with no hesitation, so I'll see her tomorrow anyway, but I wanted to get some opinions beforehand.
I made it really clear that I like her, so unless she's interested in me again, I don't think she'd be so talkative again, but could it also be, that she's trying to liven up the friendship?
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