| Summary: Husband working overseas 10 months, me and my teens going back and forth to visit, he came every month to visit us too. Nov 3 "I don't love you" Nov 4 he travels to the island again Nov 5 " I think I find a way we can work things out..renew our vows blah blah" Nov 10 back home Nov 10- March 22 H behaving very well, being very nice, lovely to all of us. Jan 4 : I found foto with He and a woman in her facebook...Explanation: "she is a coworker...just a photo in a party" March 23: I was looking for my passport I found a list, his handwriting...He slept with 6 prostitutes, 2 ONS, 1 the woman in the FB picture. March: 25 I kicked him out...til now living out of our home. Suddenly I am the love of his life, he will change. What he is doing?: Gave up alcohol, No more porn (he claims is this the cause), he is going to Sex addiction counsellor and attend program for that in clinic. No contact letter. Wrote bad review of her job performance. Scheduling vasectomy (I wanted this long time ago now I don't care) He has been begging me to come back every day: crying, temper tantrums, letters, texts, promises, etc... May 9 finally I discovered the woman in FB was a prost and secretary with he lived for 2 weeks, gave her gifts, appliances and rent. he sweared she blackmail him. He did oral sex to her. July: I hire PI to verify if her profession and length of the relationship....yes this was truth. Aug 12. Writing a timeline..I learned that after he told me that he didn't love me on Nov 3, he traveled there and passed the whole day with the Ho. The thought that he did not care about me being in tears and shattered after disclose to me that he didn't love me and go there and screw that woman again that day make me to take the decision that I don't need more time or space to think anything. I have appointment with mediator next week, I don't want reconciliation. It is too much. He is at the verge to have a breakdown. manipulating me with this tantrums. I hope his therapist help him tomorrow. How can I get through this without so much drama from his part??? | |||
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Almost 5 months of separation...Extreme Anxiety
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