Me 37, she is 38, not married but a "cohabitation agreement" boy and girl, 6 and 7. Bought her parents place 10 years ago and together for 20
My story? Lying in bed with my kids next to me sleeping. Ws? With her boyfriend.
Ive got a big depression. Almost a year since dday. Last week we had made it.
NC letter was sent and a year of continously working on us, the family, our house, everything. She hadnt seen him for 2 months except calls/sms..
We were happy. The summer was fantastic and our connection tightened.
2 weeks after nc, family gone. What?
Mil picked up my family with the gf of his dad. Drove away to him.
Apparently, they convinced my mil that she's not happy and with the reunited bond between those ( dad of ws died, mil found a new love) and off they went on their pink clouds.
Om is a piece of ****, daddy is a judge with friends and family lawyers, he got pissed. He was the one that convinced her to file a report against me for the one and only time we crossed the line, a fight. Not heavy.
She was always angry and cold.. It escalated..
Om is in the picture since october 2013
Colleague, what else.
So, EA since then, calls on cell since may last year.
Pa that I assume is true. Since october 2014.
Dday for EA, called unknown nr, om tells me im going down and she went to see lawyer and doctor.
It was true. Letter demanded to leave. Who is he? Just a friend.
Left house, 2 days later we had a perfect connection with eachother. just need some space.. Blabla..
Dday for PA christmasday. remorse, we are completely honest about past and present.
Moving back in on newyearsevening.
Every 3 weeks she left for a couple of days and then came back. After letting her sign a letter that stated her promises and nc or you leave the house she didnt see him again.that was begin june.
Except 3 weeks ago she saw him at work for her papers. She lied and I felt it.
Promises made after fight. She told me she had to it way sooner. And so the nc was sent. It felt good.
And now? Despressed and after being gaslighted for 2 years I cant tell if last year was one big lie? Friends and family tell she tried her best. We were reconnected.
Im mr nice guy, she's a perfectionist and a great mother, but also on the edge of borderline, never her fault...
Its hard, being alone with my kids. School starts in a week, its a big house. Cooking cleaning being left alone and 100% sure that she sees this as a holiday. We were so perfect and have got the best kids im the world. still want to reconcile.
Help me please. Im a wreck.
My story? Lying in bed with my kids next to me sleeping. Ws? With her boyfriend.
Ive got a big depression. Almost a year since dday. Last week we had made it.
NC letter was sent and a year of continously working on us, the family, our house, everything. She hadnt seen him for 2 months except calls/sms..
We were happy. The summer was fantastic and our connection tightened.
2 weeks after nc, family gone. What?
Mil picked up my family with the gf of his dad. Drove away to him.
Apparently, they convinced my mil that she's not happy and with the reunited bond between those ( dad of ws died, mil found a new love) and off they went on their pink clouds.
Om is a piece of ****, daddy is a judge with friends and family lawyers, he got pissed. He was the one that convinced her to file a report against me for the one and only time we crossed the line, a fight. Not heavy.
She was always angry and cold.. It escalated..
Om is in the picture since october 2013
Colleague, what else.
So, EA since then, calls on cell since may last year.
Pa that I assume is true. Since october 2014.
Dday for EA, called unknown nr, om tells me im going down and she went to see lawyer and doctor.
It was true. Letter demanded to leave. Who is he? Just a friend.
Left house, 2 days later we had a perfect connection with eachother. just need some space.. Blabla..
Dday for PA christmasday. remorse, we are completely honest about past and present.
Moving back in on newyearsevening.
Every 3 weeks she left for a couple of days and then came back. After letting her sign a letter that stated her promises and nc or you leave the house she didnt see him again.that was begin june.
Except 3 weeks ago she saw him at work for her papers. She lied and I felt it.
Promises made after fight. She told me she had to it way sooner. And so the nc was sent. It felt good.
And now? Despressed and after being gaslighted for 2 years I cant tell if last year was one big lie? Friends and family tell she tried her best. We were reconnected.
Im mr nice guy, she's a perfectionist and a great mother, but also on the edge of borderline, never her fault...
Its hard, being alone with my kids. School starts in a week, its a big house. Cooking cleaning being left alone and 100% sure that she sees this as a holiday. We were so perfect and have got the best kids im the world. still want to reconcile.
Help me please. Im a wreck.
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