If you became aware of an A involving a good friend or family member, would you tell the Spouse?
In my case it was a best friend from HS who moved away for college/career. Everytime he was back in town visiting he would call me to go out. The premise was always to go to a quiet place for a meal/drinks and get caught up on work, family, etc.
Instead it always turned out to be a ***** hunt for him at a bar. He is married. At first it was only slightly annoying but degraded into problems for me. For example, we would arrive at 1 place, I would order a drink, take 1 sip, and then he wants to leave because his target is leaving to go to a different place. After 2 or 3 times I got upset after wasting $7 drinks. And the whole purpose was for us to talk and catch up, not play "pick-up artist and wingman". He also started using me to lie about where he was staying overnight to his W and to use my CC to hide his payments to the clinic numerous times for VD testing/Treatment.
I finally said enough and threatened to call his wife and fill her in on his activities. We haven't spoken since and that was years ago. He has been married/divorced 3 times.
In my case it was a best friend from HS who moved away for college/career. Everytime he was back in town visiting he would call me to go out. The premise was always to go to a quiet place for a meal/drinks and get caught up on work, family, etc.
Instead it always turned out to be a ***** hunt for him at a bar. He is married. At first it was only slightly annoying but degraded into problems for me. For example, we would arrive at 1 place, I would order a drink, take 1 sip, and then he wants to leave because his target is leaving to go to a different place. After 2 or 3 times I got upset after wasting $7 drinks. And the whole purpose was for us to talk and catch up, not play "pick-up artist and wingman". He also started using me to lie about where he was staying overnight to his W and to use my CC to hide his payments to the clinic numerous times for VD testing/Treatment.
I finally said enough and threatened to call his wife and fill her in on his activities. We haven't spoken since and that was years ago. He has been married/divorced 3 times.
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