Hello everyone.. I'm a newbie to this site and I would like to share a bit of my story here and hope to receive some advice and direction from this community.
My fiancé and I have been together for almost 11 years. Very early in the relationship, he was unfaithful and cheated on me with another woman. He promised to change and we decided to work on our relationship. We then got engaged a couple years after that, and I discovered that he was having an affair with his co worker. He claimed that the affair was not physical and that they were both just needed attention. Again, I made the decision to sTay and work on our relationship. Three years following, I found out that he was still seeing the same woman and this time he admitted to the affair being physical off and on. He claimed it was only for sex. I also called off the wedding due to ongoing affair. Yes, again he promised to change and not engage in any relations with the other woman. Unfortunately, another three years has passed and I discovered that he was still involved with the other woman upon investigation. I found a "secret" phone In his car and read messages from the other woman professing her love for him. I then registered for teensafe and received all the necessary info. I spoke to her over the phone in his presence and they both confessed to the affair and claimed that they would end the affair and all ties. My fiance is now begging profusely for Another chance and I'm lost. I'm devastated by this and still very much In shock and I'm uncertain whether I should give it anotjer shot of reconciliation or just simply let it go and move on. Pls ppl, I'm still very emotional so don't he too hard on me. Thank you I'm advance for any advice or support offered. Btw, the other woman is married and I did not expose the affair to her husband for fear of the outcome. I've only told some of his family members and a couple of my friends. The other woman apologized to me, however she does not seem remorseful as I have added her on my WhatsApp messenger and she continues to throw subliminals via memes on her profile. Any further questions are welcomed.
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My fiancé and I have been together for almost 11 years. Very early in the relationship, he was unfaithful and cheated on me with another woman. He promised to change and we decided to work on our relationship. We then got engaged a couple years after that, and I discovered that he was having an affair with his co worker. He claimed that the affair was not physical and that they were both just needed attention. Again, I made the decision to sTay and work on our relationship. Three years following, I found out that he was still seeing the same woman and this time he admitted to the affair being physical off and on. He claimed it was only for sex. I also called off the wedding due to ongoing affair. Yes, again he promised to change and not engage in any relations with the other woman. Unfortunately, another three years has passed and I discovered that he was still involved with the other woman upon investigation. I found a "secret" phone In his car and read messages from the other woman professing her love for him. I then registered for teensafe and received all the necessary info. I spoke to her over the phone in his presence and they both confessed to the affair and claimed that they would end the affair and all ties. My fiance is now begging profusely for Another chance and I'm lost. I'm devastated by this and still very much In shock and I'm uncertain whether I should give it anotjer shot of reconciliation or just simply let it go and move on. Pls ppl, I'm still very emotional so don't he too hard on me. Thank you I'm advance for any advice or support offered. Btw, the other woman is married and I did not expose the affair to her husband for fear of the outcome. I've only told some of his family members and a couple of my friends. The other woman apologized to me, however she does not seem remorseful as I have added her on my WhatsApp messenger and she continues to throw subliminals via memes on her profile. Any further questions are welcomed.
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