My husband and I have been together for 8 years. The last 4 years have been hard, but this last year has by far been the worst. He has a very high sex drive and mine hasn't always been good, but in the last few years it's been lower than normal. Sex is very important to him and I believe he bases our entire marriage on it. He used to be very sweet, loving, kind and patient. But now he is someone I don't recognize. He says really cruel things to me, and has really started trying to control me entirely. If I leave the house without him or the kids, when I return, I'm accused of cheating. (which I'm not) our marriage is on its last leg. He bullied me into having sex and I do it bc he says he will be nice, but within 24-48 hours later, he's verbally abusive again. I haven't had sex with him in a month now. I don't want to be forced to have sex for his needs and be put down by him all the time too. So I told him, I need him to acknowledge that the things he sa ys are mean and that he will make an effort to stop. He denies ever saying anything cruel and just continues to knock me down.....I don't want a divorce, I just want my sweet husband back, any advice????
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