I'm wondering if it's time I moved on with my marriage for the both of us. We have been married 17 years and have never really had a sex life. This was something he wanted at the very beginning and I went along with it. He watches porn all the time. I know of at least one affair that he had 6 years ago. He supposedly ended it and we were going to try to make things work that didn't happen. I suggested counseling in the past but he doesn't want any part of it. He's always been controlling, jealous and has never trusted me even though I have never given him a reason. He lost his job 3 years ago after working at a company for 20 years that went out of business. He had 2 jobs but quit both of them after a month. We have settled in to just a comfortable life with no love between us. I don't know how to leave someone that doesn't have a job, no family or friends around here. He can be a nice guy when he wants to be but he is hard to live with. Sometimes I think it would be the right thing to leave so he can move on with his life. He doesn't seem to have the motivation to do it himself. I'm just wondering what someone else would do in this situation.
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