being 59 ( widowed by second ) i have been dating for about 1 year 12 years younger lady. we get alone fine ( including her kid ). being intimate for several months ( or trying ) we have difference in this aspect. i have been used to ( and i loved it all my life ) to be able to touch my woman, see her body, kiss/lick private parts, sleep naked or at least half naked. to feel her body i love so much. even i am macho, i have been told i have soul of woman in intimacy aspect. what i get is triple protection ( underwear and pajamas with exception of brief naked when penetrating ). allowed only little touch, no way of going down or holding my hands on her private parts. and command 'stop it' almost always. so we have brief intercourse her way ( missionary, kissing only ), sometimes she comes, sometimes not. i have failed on some occasions ( and she is understanding ) because i need long foreplay without too many restrictions ( like going down ). try to discus s, answer is quarrel and will not happen.
coming to the point of what to do? i love her and we good with her kid, she loves me ( i believe ) but this intimacy difference can be breaker. and she knows it, considers break ( if i don't accept her way she is ). i would like to but know it is eating me inside and it will backfire if we don't resolve. what do you think? can there be mutual compromise?
coming to the point of what to do? i love her and we good with her kid, she loves me ( i believe ) but this intimacy difference can be breaker. and she knows it, considers break ( if i don't accept her way she is ). i would like to but know it is eating me inside and it will backfire if we don't resolve. what do you think? can there be mutual compromise?
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