So the past couple months my wife has been sleeping on the couch with our daughter. Our daughter doesn't sleep through the night in her bed so this is the compromise.
Because of this we haven't spent much time together at all. When I bring up sexy time, she generally brushes me off. She spends ALOT of time on her phone (facebook). She generally has her head buried in it when I've gone into our living room at night.
So last week she was acting strange before work. My gut told me something was off. I ended up using the iPhone find my phone feature to find her location. I'm not proud of this. I hated doing it. Her location that day was in a park near her work in a secluded parking lot. I texted her and she ended up texting me back an hour or so later. No word of heading out for lunch or taking a walk or anything. Normally, she tells me every detail of her day, that's just how she is.
I definitely have trust issues with her. A similar situation occurred a few years back when I went out of town. I ended up in an accident and could not get a hold of her. When I asked where she was, she was very defensive. She changed her story a couple times. We have kids, so even though I really felt something happened there, I decided to stay and try to improve myself and our relationship.
I really need some advice here. I don't want to come off paranoid. Since last week, she's been very touchy feely. She initiated sent time as well. It felt a little hollow though. Do I straight up bring it up? Wait it out and see if it continues?
Because of this we haven't spent much time together at all. When I bring up sexy time, she generally brushes me off. She spends ALOT of time on her phone (facebook). She generally has her head buried in it when I've gone into our living room at night.
So last week she was acting strange before work. My gut told me something was off. I ended up using the iPhone find my phone feature to find her location. I'm not proud of this. I hated doing it. Her location that day was in a park near her work in a secluded parking lot. I texted her and she ended up texting me back an hour or so later. No word of heading out for lunch or taking a walk or anything. Normally, she tells me every detail of her day, that's just how she is.
I definitely have trust issues with her. A similar situation occurred a few years back when I went out of town. I ended up in an accident and could not get a hold of her. When I asked where she was, she was very defensive. She changed her story a couple times. We have kids, so even though I really felt something happened there, I decided to stay and try to improve myself and our relationship.
I really need some advice here. I don't want to come off paranoid. Since last week, she's been very touchy feely. She initiated sent time as well. It felt a little hollow though. Do I straight up bring it up? Wait it out and see if it continues?
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