Briefly , I think this guy likes me based on my own gut feel as I have all along seen admiring glances in my direction . Not because I am hot babe but he was observing my interaction with my children and smiling away , but I am someone else's wife . upon my divorcing , he invited me twice . I was divorcing and was not ready to date , thus i courteously side tracked his invite , saying to be at a later date . this process lasted over almost two years as we run into each other occassionally. In between , whenever i texted and asked for advice , it was quickly offered and encouragement followed . met once to dish out advice and consolation to me .
Now , I am ready to date , and upon the advice of TAM posters , I owe the duty of asking since i have side stepped the invites twice . I did ask recently .
He replied to meet up after his business travel and I know for a fact he is travelling , back for a couple of days n off again . I guess it is peak season , and I heard there is a new biz set up . And he is a single dad too so I suppose he sees the kids for those days back , and i have seen him with the kids on those days as well and he mentioned he was busy with work and young kids .
So questions to men , does a man mean what he says , straight forward and face value "to meet up after travel" , or it is a rejection ?
I am fine either way , still a good friend to have , even if he doesnt end up as a boyfriend , as he is a nice guy to offer much support and encouragement during my dark divorcing days .
But frankly , I am also busy with new business set up as well , as I have to feed my kids as well since my ex is not . So I have been wondering how to date with no time as well .
oh , I dont think he has a girlfriend yet . Still paying me nice compliments ( wink wink ) as I have been working out and looking really fit and good , so he says and all my friends as well . :x:grin2:
men ? opinion ? women opinion ?
Now , I am ready to date , and upon the advice of TAM posters , I owe the duty of asking since i have side stepped the invites twice . I did ask recently .
He replied to meet up after his business travel and I know for a fact he is travelling , back for a couple of days n off again . I guess it is peak season , and I heard there is a new biz set up . And he is a single dad too so I suppose he sees the kids for those days back , and i have seen him with the kids on those days as well and he mentioned he was busy with work and young kids .
So questions to men , does a man mean what he says , straight forward and face value "to meet up after travel" , or it is a rejection ?
I am fine either way , still a good friend to have , even if he doesnt end up as a boyfriend , as he is a nice guy to offer much support and encouragement during my dark divorcing days .
But frankly , I am also busy with new business set up as well , as I have to feed my kids as well since my ex is not . So I have been wondering how to date with no time as well .
oh , I dont think he has a girlfriend yet . Still paying me nice compliments ( wink wink ) as I have been working out and looking really fit and good , so he says and all my friends as well . :x:grin2:
men ? opinion ? women opinion ?
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