I am 6 months into my tour in Korea and I have had alot of time to reflect. Every duty station, deployment, and mission all I hear and see is an increasing number of people treating sex and relationships like a game.
It has happened to me and it happens to many others. I try to tell myself that it is just the military and I should look elsewhere but to be honest, all I got from civilian womem was the same thing.
Am I just blowing things out of proportion? At this point I am against dating in almost any form because as a mechanic I will refuse to start a project if I think it's doomed. That spread into my personal life and my friends pointed out that I don't work well with females and just kinda brush them off.
My divorce really didn't get me as down as I thought it would...I think. She cheated anx I shut it down which seemed fairly simple. I was mostly mad that her family ruined my lawn.
I'm also not saying that only females are cheating. I head these other males talk at the smoke pit and it is disgusting. Females even join the conversation and don't tell them to shut up. I can't help but wonder if our society has just not taken proper action against infidelity. It's a huge offense in the military which isn't stopping anyone. Ot also seems lile alot of times the victim is harassex and turned into the bad person!
It has happened to me and it happens to many others. I try to tell myself that it is just the military and I should look elsewhere but to be honest, all I got from civilian womem was the same thing.
Am I just blowing things out of proportion? At this point I am against dating in almost any form because as a mechanic I will refuse to start a project if I think it's doomed. That spread into my personal life and my friends pointed out that I don't work well with females and just kinda brush them off.
My divorce really didn't get me as down as I thought it would...I think. She cheated anx I shut it down which seemed fairly simple. I was mostly mad that her family ruined my lawn.
I'm also not saying that only females are cheating. I head these other males talk at the smoke pit and it is disgusting. Females even join the conversation and don't tell them to shut up. I can't help but wonder if our society has just not taken proper action against infidelity. It's a huge offense in the military which isn't stopping anyone. Ot also seems lile alot of times the victim is harassex and turned into the bad person!
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