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Inappropriate touching by my husband

My husband and I moved into a new neighborhood a few months ago and we have become friendly with a few couples who have children and all the kids play while the adults hang out. We don't have conventional schedules, my husband works nights and I work all different shifts this week I am working 5am which mean I have to get up at 330am. I had just working that morning and I arrived home and my husband invited one couple and his sister was over the house. Later the other wife (we will call her Peg) of one of the couples came over without her husband or kids becasue she said they went away to do boy stuff. I was not drinking since I had to work early and they were drinking. My husband was already upset with me from a fight we had yesterday which carried over today and he made a really rude comment to me in front of our friends which really made me feel uncomfortable. I kept my distance from him and he made occassionaly small talk with me.

I had to feed and put the baby to bed at 730p and I told the girls I would put the baby to sleep and then I was going to go to bed.

I woke up several times during the night becasue I kept hearing loud voices so I decided to get up and look out my window. I saw that the group moved to my neighbor's patio so I asked my son who was at the neighbors. He said Peg was there and just the couple that live at that house. Well I opened the window and I heard them doing shots of wild turkey and then I saw the two women jumping dancing, it was very obvious that they were drunk, then when the wife went inside the house her husband was outside I saw Peg hug my husband and say I love you. Then when the woman came out of the house I heard her say whats this hugs and kisses. I know it was friendly drunk affection but it made me really uncomfortable because I don't remember my husband hugging me in a long time. I decided to put on my pants and go outside. I hid in the bushes so that I could see better and also hear them. I could tell that the drinking had gotten worse and they started talking about me and another women in the neighborhood that I felt was getting too friendly with my husband. (please don't think Im a jealouse freak) but I had told my husband ONLY that at a party I felt like she was following him around and I questioned why she had been calling him on the phone on a few occassions. I heard my husband say to the women that "I felt threatened by this woman" The wife of the house said that she admired me and that she would do the same. I really didn't know what to do. I was hiding on the ground in the bushes and I was afraid they would see me, I didn't want to embarrass my husband either. Well, its past 1am and I have to wake up at 330am. I then heard Peg start talking about her breast implants and how she designed them and becuase I had heard this story before I was afraid she was either going to show them or have my husband touch them.

Well my prediction was right. I heard her say yeah touch go ahead touch, so I lost my mind at the moment, I came out of the bushes and walked to her patio and said "Peg does your husband know that my husband is touching your breast? How would that make him feel?" She was laughing out of control like she thought it was funny that I caught them in the act, I guess she thought I would laugh and find it hysterical, only I didn't. I said I'm not laughting and I don't think this is funny. This behaviour is disrespectful and I was very dissapointed. I then left and I thought my husband would leave after me. Well he didnt so I called him on the phone and said if you don't come home I will come get you. HE said he didn't know what to do, so I went back and said lets go. I went back in and also told Peg that she violated my trust and that I would never conduct myself the way she did and that I was not raised that way. I then said why they were doing shots and then she denied it. When I said you were doing Wild turkey shots then the other wife said yes we were.

I told Peg that I would talk to her when she was sober and my husband was outside being belligerent and saying that "Game on" you want to play "Game On" I looked at Peg and I said now look what I have to deal with and I have to get up in 2 hours. I then left with my husband who was very upset with me.

I don't know what to do. My husband and I argued all night and he tried to flip the script on me. I saw him touch another woman inappropriately and disrespect me and our marriage and he tried to fight with me and yell at me for embarrasing me.

How should i handle this. Im at work all day and I was just planning on not answering his calls.




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