Girlfriend wants to stop all contact.

What it says on the tin, basically. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and two months. I love her very much -- I find her gorgeous, sexy, fun -- she's everything I could ever want in a woman. We laugh and joke all the time. We know how to have great and intellectually stimulating conversations. We share a great sex life together, and I know this is true for both of us. So what went wrong? We were having a minor tiff two days ago, but we've had the same argument so many times before and it means nothing. She basically made out with my best friend in the past, but this was well before she met me (and also over by then.) Every so often, though, it comes back to me and I get insecure. Two days ago, I brought the whole "you've kissed my best friend" thing up in a moment of insecurity/grumpiness and she got more furious than ever. That wound me up, so I stupidly said something about her religion in a (very stupid, I know) attempt to wind her up too (she's a Muslim girl). She got extremely angry and said the relationship was over. Now I know she doesn't actually mean it (she's said it so many times before...), but I need to make sure this doesn't happen again. Only it's difficult, because he was my mate after all. Am I being unreasonable? She later sent me this message: My mind has changed so much. It's out of my control, I'm sorry. One too many hits. I've warned you before about this. The only thing I know for certain right now is that I need time, and pressurising me will only worsen your case. I love you and I care about you very much. But I also know that this isn't working at all right now, and that you will lose me if we continue like this. Soul-mates and infinity and feelings do exist, but so does hatred. It is possible to develop hatred towards even someone that you love, and I don't want that to happen to us. I'm sorry, and I really do love you. But your messages are making me feel unnecessarily guilty for saving myself, and for protecting myself from something that is harming me emotionally right now. It is on these grounds that I hope you will agree to no longer message me.

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