| Ok so i have been friends with my friend ever since i was 12 years old,and she was thirteen.We met in middle school.Through the years we wouldn't spend much time together, but that's just the way it was, and still is.We talk on the phone more than anything.But even that gets cut down to a minimum. Reason being is because she is mostly a negative person. I'm not trying to talk bad about my friend but its the truth.And this drains me.Don't get me wrong,from the past to the present whenever i need advice when i'm going through something, she's always there with good advice.And wisdom. But can be negative at the same time.She's been going through a tough time these past four years as far as getting the job she wants and her love life is really none at all and never have been really.So i'm assuming maybe that and other personal issues have her down.But i've been through a lot in my life too, but i'm always optimistic about life.She's the total opposite .So when i'm trying to encourage her, she hits me back with negativity and when this happens my spirit goes down as long as i'm speaking to her.And whenever something good happens for me, she can't be happy for me, and even admitted to it.Sometimes she won't even call me, and i know it's because she feels bad and she knows i have a positive spirit and negativity can't mix with positivity. It's like if i were feeling down like her she would talk to me more because we could complain about life together.And she complains a lot.I encourage her to be happy with what she has already, but she says she cant because she wants more.I have thoughts of not being her friend anymore and i do distance myself from her even on the phone i hold back sometimes because i can'nt express the positivity in me to her because she won't do anything but find more reasons to be negative.You all's comments will be appreciated. |
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