| Ok so my partner and I aren't getting at the min ans we've had a few conversation. One of which was tonight. We were talking about how we cab make each others life better. He told me not to be such a bitch, which I totally admitted to being. But when I tried to explain why he said I wasn't being normal It may seem trivial but I just need to know if I am or not. ......okay so I'm a bitch, one reason I gave was I felt that anything I did wasn't respected. Examples being... I try and keep a tidy house, but having two jobs and two kids I sometimes struggle to keep on tip of the daily routine but always have the house completely spotless at least one day a week.,.. so after I tidy everywhere my partner comes home after a 14 hour day plus travelling. He comes home and dumps his work crap on the table grabs a beer and I'm lucky if I get a hello. he'll then get changed our of his work clothes which he leaves on the floor and continues to drink leaving his beer cans on the floor. Then falls asleep on the sofa. Goes to work the next morning leaving his mess behind him. I spike to him about this and to me I said that it makes me feel like he doesn't care about me or anything I Do about the house. He said that he's just being lazy and that I'm not normal for thinking that he doesn't care about me coz he doesn't put his beet cans in the the bin . I know logically that it is just hun being lazy but he's not respecting that it hurts me when he can't do the little things that matter to me and that's why it hurts and upsets me and it feels like he doesn't care. ......so do other people feel like this or do I need to do as he says and get my head tested as I'm not normal...... Please tell me I am normal even if it's not logical.... | |||
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