How do you get your wife to drop the lbs?

Ok, here's a brief background on our current situation: 1. We're in our early 30's. 2. Married 3 years. 3. No Kids. 4. Doing well. Financially, socially, etc. 5. I'm in great shape, and workout everyday. 6. She's borderline obese... and very much preoccupied with Tv and her smart phone. :-/ 7. Our sex life is not so hot... Once a month, at best! 8. She's not wanting kids soon-- she wants them YESTERDAY! Her biological clock is ticking up a storm. 9. I want kids, too. However, our intimacy and her health are less than ideal. 10. I love her and i have no plans on leaving, but I feel like my options are running out. I've been trying for the past couple of years to get her motivated to lose weight, but it seems I've only managed to irritate her and frustrate myself. I've never been direct or blunt with her about it for fear of hurting her feelings. Instead, I've dropped subtle hints and suggestions here and there. I've always searched for the best words, and have tried coming up with clever ideas to get her involved in some kind of exercise. Nothing has really worked... FYI: She was once very petite and fit. This is something that has crept into her life in the past several years. It may be that straight forward and direct are the only things will work. I am willing to step up to the plate and give it to her straight, but I feel like I need some more advice on how to this. I mean... If you're going to drop the bomb, then it needs to be a precision operation. I definitely don't wanna to have to come back and drop it again. And I don't want a whole lotta collateral damage. Make sense? I am ready for kids!!! ...but not with our current situation being what it is. Does anyone have any suggestions? Were you, or are you currently, in my shoes? Posted via Mobile Device

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