Signs from a girl.

Ill start from the beginning weve only been meeting now nerly a month everythings has been great see eachother now and again (stay over eg) which is good. Were both 23 and live in a 10minutes drive of eachother, basically were not together but i feel like wer working to that up until this week ive noticed she doesnt seem "as talkative bubblly?". When we first started meeting shed always message me ask what im doin where im goin and ask to see me and that but up until this week its kinda like ive bene the one starting off the contact and her replies are not bad or anything just dont seem the same as she used to speak. We was ment to go out for a meal/cinema yesterday and i no she wasnt feelling to good even tho this was planned for about a week i said " you wanna leave it" her reply was "ill let you know" which im not a last minute kinda person to wait around so i decided to just tell her to rest instead. Then i started thinking and basically said to her was everything alright as she didnt seem the same these past few days as i felt like i keep on to her a little like "asking to see her or trying to make things happen" , She said to me that its her and not me that shes sorry if shes pushing me away and i said " do u wanna just be friends" not expecting her reply to be "i dont wanna stop meeting you your perfect eg" but that shes really paranoid and has trust issues and said that shes not ready for a relationship atm and wants to take things slow and see where it leads. This made me feel good that i called this out on her but anoyed me that she didnt say anything to me about this , Basically shes been cheated on on her last 2 long relationships and said that this is the reason why shes got a habit of pushing men away ever since them as she finds it so hard to trust and gets paranoid really easy. We have had such a good time since we been meeting and ive gave her no reason to think otherwise, She also said that theres alot of things she hasnt told me and that we both need a heart to heart talk and that this talk needs to happen sooner than later. Shes busy now till the weekend but i asked her if she would stay with me on weekend(sat) which she said shes cool with but i dont no where to start. Shes already told me im Bf material and met parents and stuff but this is kinda a smack in the face when i went with my gut instinct and there was something bothering her. So where do i go from here now? , I think alot of this girl and i can see us bein so much more but if shes got these problems of trust and bein paranoid as such shes not gunna get over them until she finally begins to loosen up again so i dont no what to do?. Shall i wait to see what she has to say? guess if she wasnt that intrested she wouldnt stay and want this talk , But i dont think i could deal with her bein all happy then getitng all paranoid and bein off with me as its gunna make me feel that ive done something, What would anyone advise i do on this situation help be much appreciated?

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