What are some thoughts?

So I am in my first relationship. We are both in our early twenties (closer to mid twenties) and we've been together for about a year now. But I am starting to think that we just both met at the wrong time or we are incompatible. The thing is I want to travel at some point, and I want to travel for atleast 6 months to a year. Yes that is a long time but it has always been my dream to travel. I am in a profession where I will get a job once I return albeit I might have to look around. But my partner does not like travelling at all. She says that she feels miserable being away for even a week. If she was away that long she says that she would probably kill herself. All she wants is to get a house get a job and stay in one place. I would like that too but not just yet. I don't want to get into that long term committment without first travelling. She is talking about living together now and hoped that we could live together by next year. Is this a goo d pace? There are some other things too like for instance she says that she subscribes to a really "dependent type of love" and I subscribe to a really "independent type of love". She is really needy and always wants me to give her special attention and all that. I believe we should be who we really are in a relationship and they should both be like best friends , but she believes that you should treat your partner differently than that. Maybe like shower lots of affection and adore them and all that. I am sure it is somewhere in between. And I understand that and I said I can do that. But she thinks it shouldn't be something learned otherwise it is not real. Is that type of thing real (the different kinds of love)? Should I give up traveling to stay with her? Can these two discrepencies in what kind of love we want be resolved? Can love really prevail? What are some thoughts? I hope to hear some well thought answers. Thanks

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