| Some of you may have heard this story before bc I was on TAM about a year ago and just joined again. Anyway, My husband and I have been together for almost 12 years. During those 12 years he cheated on me for about the first six off and on. Finally five years ago he got a sudden case of maturity and claims he stopped cheating bc he finally realized what was important. After that I still felt like I was taken for granted. For several years I found myself doing what ever it took to make him happy but what about my own happiness? He was a stay at home dad while I worked and at one point I even worked two jobs. As time passed things began to get stressful financially. There was always the false promise of him getting a great job just for him to show nothing. Finally I felt it was time for him to show and prove. I was on the internet one day and found this thing called a 180 list. Many of you may be familiar with it. However, the list has now backfired on me. It has now caused him to think that I am or have cheated on him and that I take him for granted. Now in a nut shell he's using the list on me and I don't even think he knows it. Without taking up too much time...the summary is, we got into a huge fight and he moved out. I love my husband to death and never intended for things to go this far. Now I don't know what to do. I am at a complete lost. |
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