frustrated

I am not sure what the problem really is. Maybe someone can tell me. I was married to my first husband and we had an awesome sex life. We were very much in love for 9 years and was High School sweet hearts. We had two children together and then later got divorce due to other issues. Well, after the divorce I had several men dating and tried having sex with certain ones and I could not get an orgasm. Then I meet my second husband and for 30 years of marriage and trying to get counseling/therapy. I still can't have n orgasm. I am so frustrated, but when I masturbate I can reach an orgasm. Please give me some feedback on this issue of mines.:confused:

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