Is he just after sex?

Hi! Just wondered how you might interpret this situation. I met a guy about 2 months ago on a dating site. On the first date we got chatting about how we found the site and I said it annoyed me when guys would write to me obviously just after one thing, which I'm not after as I would have written 'looking for casual sex' in my profile. So he knew from the start I was looking for something a bit more serious. I normally wait a while before sleeping with someone, but with this guy it ended up being after about 2 weeks (about the 5th date in). Since then we've had sex most times we've met up. About a month into 'it' I asked him what he was looking for (maybe that seems a bit early, but I just wanted to know we were hopefully on the same page) and he said he'd like to take it slowly as he'd only broken up with his gf about 3 months ago (I expected him to say this so it was fine with me), but then he said 'so I guess you could say we're friends with benefits' :eek: I was really hurt by this as he'd known from the start this wasn't what I wanted and I felt like he'd led me on! I left and over the next few days I was distant with him and even cancelled a date because I just didn't want to see him. A few days later he wanted to meet up so I agreed so I could get some things off my chest. It turns out I'd misunderstood him (how, may I ask?) and he thought FWB was what you called it before you were in a relationship with someone. Now, English isn't his first language, but he is fluent so I don't know how he couldn't have known what this meant. I decided to give him another chance and we kept meeting up, but I couldn't get it out of my mind that it was just sex he was after and maybe he was just pretending it was more so that we could keep meeting up and therefore he'd get what he wanted. One night he asked to come over and I said 'you can, but I'm on my period so you probably won't want to come over' and he seemed shocked I'd said that and he said 'it's not just sex I want - I enjoy hanging out with you'. He does put a lot of effort in during the dates (even when we don't have sex) such as going to concerts, going go-karting, going to comedy nights...etc. I'm really confused. My friends say I should just ride with it (excuse the pun) and see where it goes, but I don't want to let myself fall for him if he's just playing me. Even if it were just sex I were after too, I still wouldn't stay as it's not even that good to be honest - he's quite selfish in bed. I just really like him though - we have such a laugh together and I enjoy his company. He's been away for 2 weeks now and wrote to me the other day telling me how horny he was and couldn't wait for sex when he got back. I would much rather him say he missed me or something, not just the sex:( Sorry for the length. I'm not sure what to do. I know it's normal to have quite a lot of sex at the start of a relationship, so I'm not sure if I'm overthinking this :S

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