| So this is my first time doing any sort of thread online, but I am a bit lost. My story goes as such I have been married to an alcoholic for 10 years. About 7 years ago my husband made moves towards my sister while I was sleeping in the other room. He did not tell me, my sister did and I contemplated leaving at the time but did not. His was drinking at the time. I asked that he quit drinking, he did not. It took along time for my family to forgive him. Well them we had a son 4 years ago and the drinking continues, and in the past 2 years has gotten much worse. Well 2 months ago my husband said some questionable things to my sister again, and said that he is unhappy because all he wants is her. He denies this and said it was the alcohol talking. Well last straw and I left. I had been so unhappy for so long, because of the drinking and I could never get over the fact he tried to have sex with my sister, constant reminder as my sister and I are close . I realize I should have addressed things much more when it happended but was so devastated I didnt know what to do. Well now that I have left my husband he has quit drinking, is going to counciling and wants me back. But I dont want to go back I want a divorce. Am I wrong for not wanting to give him a 2nd chance? Life is 2 short, and I want to be happy.. I have met someone that I like since I left, it just kind of happened and has made me look at things differently. I had blamed myself for my husbands drinking and thoughts of my sister for so long, that I just cant go back. Am I crazy.... |
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