Marriage Help

Hi everyone, its my first time on this site. I just really need help and advice. I'm 21, kind of young I know, but believe me I'm much more mature than my years. Anyway, I'm married and I have a 4mo old daughter, my first. My husband is 22. We've been married 1 yr and 6mos. So, I'm very introverted, I'm quiet, I'm not good with crowds, that being said I'm also incredibly strong willed, I'm passionate about my beliefs, I'm a very strong person. My husband and I clash constantly. Our main problem areas are: 1. Sex 2. My daughter 3. Communication not necessarily in that order. My husband wants sex all the time, the problem is I can't help but reflect on what cruel thing he's said to me, or that he didn't listen to me on this occasion. I like sex, but our constant arguing kills my attraction for my husband. He says I'm being vengeful, but I can't help how I feel. About my daughter, I love her so much. I love her more than anything, would do anything for her, and she's me and my husbands first, and possibly only, child. The issue with this is I hate the way he treats her. I don't understand him. When I wake up I'm excited to see my daughter, I relish holding her, if I go some where without her, I can't wait to see her when I get home. I read her stories and play with her. My husband yells at her, when he picks her up he lets her head hang. He lets her scream and cry, he tells her that he knows what shes doing and she's fooling me. He gets off of work at around five thirty. By then I've fed her breakfast and lunch, and cleaned her ears twice (she got her ears pierced and they have to be cleaned 3x a day), If I tell him its his turn to feed her and clean her ears he gets upset! If she cries in the middle of the night and I ask him to get her so I can feed her and gets upset and refuses. He doesn't want to take her any where, he'll barely watch her. Do you see where I'm going? He says I baby her, newsflash: shes a baby! He says I don't give him enough credit. He says he's tired, I'm TIRED!!! I take care of her all day, cook, clean, bathe her, dress her, change her. As far as communication goes, we don't agree on anything! He's traditional minded while I am very liberal. I believe in equality, I believe in having my own last name. I want to work, I refuse to cook and clean for him when he can do it himself. I refuse to cater to him. Please help me, I need all the advice I can get!

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