| http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-t...-break-up.html Little back ground above. Quick update since it has been a couple months. I moved out on my own as of Jan 2. Was really hard, but have been getting through it. During February wife says she may want to try on us. We try for approx. 2 weeks hanging out, dinners, ballet, staying at house. After 2 weeks, I get the "This feels like friends" line. Sure there has been a bare min. of EA, no proof of PA looked at FB, emails, chats, IG, phone. Dose not mean one is going on. So go bare minimal contact since, and we have run every emotion from being friendly to hating each other to on the brink of filing. Well approx. 2 weeks ago she blows me up texting and calling buzzed. I love you, I need you, you have hurt me, ect. I don't answer until after almost an hour of texting and calls non stop. I go over we talk. She is hurt, does not know what to do. We go to beach in morning and talk more. She is crying, and wants us to work but is scared and can't trust me. She agrees to got to Retrouvaille in April. I am shocked, she was so against this previously. We have been good the past week and a half. I keep contact at a minimum. MC stated we spend 1 day a week with each other/date, 1 day a week as a family with girls, and 1 day a week communicating for 15-20mins. Lots of baby steps, and a complete change in wife's behavior and attitude. I am being VERY GUARDED because of the last time I ended up just a friend. I beleive I may have moved WAYYYYY to fast at that time. Just want some open honest opinions or statements about our chances, especially with the development of her going to Retrouvaille. Thanks in advance!!! | |||
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