So I'm currently in my first year at uni and I frequently go out however I never ever have ONS's - in fact I haven't had sex in a year and a half.. that is until last Wednesday. -.-
There's a guy who is part of my social circle, the group I pre with and go out with (although he and his friends are not there as often as my closer friends in that group are) .. and we met only once previously where we kissed and he added me on fb the day after and later told my friend he thought I was fit.
I then saw him Wednesday in a club and we were together all night, kissing, flirting and eventually going back to his - I was so, so drunk as was he and after resisting for a little bit I gave in eventually cos I was just as into it as he was tbh. The next morning he's nice and cute and puts a film on and doesn't seem to want me to go as I say I am and he's like seriously? you should stay. He tells me he's gonna see me again too.. He gets my number and immediately texts me upon me leaving to ask if I got back ok and I said yeah and then he continues to text that day, and the day after..
However Friday he asks me to come round for you-know-what and I was immediately suspicious like oh no he thinks I'm already his f-buddy.. I thought a date was on the cards aagh. And I tell him I'm not up for that, I don't want a casual sex thing, and he says we'll just be friends then.. and I'm like :l the ****.. he asks me If I'm coming the next pre's sesh and I tell him maybe because I'm pretty busy the week after.. and today I texted him asking why we didn't go on a date.. (I know I know ugh) and he said I can't really afford to start seeing someone atm sorry.. I was then a bit snippy with him and when he said we'll probably still see eachother around we know the same people I said "that's excellent news".. so he knows im a bit pissed off..
How do I handle this? How do I act when I next see him? Do I text to smooth things over? Do I act like I did before? Why say he's gonna see me again and then not! agh!
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