Yesterday night DH and I went to his grandma's house to spend time with his family. We rode with his sister in 1 car to make it easier and agreed we wouldn't go anywhere else after. During yhe times, his friends kept texting and calling him to come over and drink. He kept telling them no and he can't anyways because he didn't have a car. They said they would pick him up and he said no. Next thing you know they shownup at the door all jolly.
He asked if I wanted to go to the party and I said no. So when he told them he would go I asked if I could talk to him in private. I told him I am beyond angry and felt completely disrespected by his friends to even do that. He saw how upset I was and said "Fine I won't go" he seemed annoyed so I panicked and said i didn't care if he went. But he insisted he stayed...so he went to tell his friends and then later told me he was leaving because they begged him to go.
Later that night I found him home drunk and throwing up. Next morning after a few pukes he comes to me and looks at me and asks "are u mad at me?" And I responded "yes I'm very mad at you." I told him I've never felt so angry and disrespected in the years I've been with him. And how much it hurt me when he decided to go when he knew I was hurt. I asked why did he have to go. He said "idk...they just really wanted me to. It won't happen again". Tears are coming out and I tell him it showed that he didn't care as much how I felt and that all his friends do is get drunk and try to get him drunk. This is rare, he sees them maybe once or twice a month but they always try to get him drunk. We are 25-32 you would think they would've grown up!! He didn't seem annoyed and seemed sorry for what he did. We just hugged and I kissed him...but I can't help but feel angry inside but I'll move forward
The convo played over in my mind but didn't go how I wanted it to. What else could I have done? I can't let this happen again, did I get through to him? He seemed more understanding today than when it all happened yesterday and is paying for it with a hangover.
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He asked if I wanted to go to the party and I said no. So when he told them he would go I asked if I could talk to him in private. I told him I am beyond angry and felt completely disrespected by his friends to even do that. He saw how upset I was and said "Fine I won't go" he seemed annoyed so I panicked and said i didn't care if he went. But he insisted he stayed...so he went to tell his friends and then later told me he was leaving because they begged him to go.
Later that night I found him home drunk and throwing up. Next morning after a few pukes he comes to me and looks at me and asks "are u mad at me?" And I responded "yes I'm very mad at you." I told him I've never felt so angry and disrespected in the years I've been with him. And how much it hurt me when he decided to go when he knew I was hurt. I asked why did he have to go. He said "idk...they just really wanted me to. It won't happen again". Tears are coming out and I tell him it showed that he didn't care as much how I felt and that all his friends do is get drunk and try to get him drunk. This is rare, he sees them maybe once or twice a month but they always try to get him drunk. We are 25-32 you would think they would've grown up!! He didn't seem annoyed and seemed sorry for what he did. We just hugged and I kissed him...but I can't help but feel angry inside but I'll move forward
The convo played over in my mind but didn't go how I wanted it to. What else could I have done? I can't let this happen again, did I get through to him? He seemed more understanding today than when it all happened yesterday and is paying for it with a hangover.
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