Hello all. I'm In the 8th year of marriage with my wife. I'll preface this with I have not been the worlds greatest husband. It's been tough to be married to me because of my family. My dad is a narcissistic sociopath. Womanizer and all around bad guy. He was the beginning of our problems. Along with my working for him I feared him. This kept me from sticking up to him when he would treat me or my wife badly. We quickly quit hanging around him. My wife hates him. My mother stuck her nose into our relationship early on and wife has never forgiven her. My sister is a *****. Plain and simple. Didn't say two words to my wife the night they met. GF at the time.
My wife had plenty to be resentful towards me for. Lately I have been drinking a little too heavy and being messier around the house. We are rarely having sex. We've addressed the drinking a few times. I quit for 6 weeks or so then come back lightly and eventually push it too far again. I do not get drunk and hurt or say anything mean. I like a couple pints a night after a long hard day in the oil field.
Now to why I think she's Borderline. Every fight we've ever had she is horrifically mean to me. Telling me to **** off go **** myself I'm a child and have no business being a family man. She belittles me to the point that I do feel like a child.
We have a 4 yo together that I'm crazy about. She has two kids from a very abusive marriage. He cheat and beat on her. So she tells me. Now. I send the middle step kid to private high school and just bought the college kid a car. We have a nice house and nice things. A new car. Everything she could need. I come home pretty early most days I never go out with friends and am at her beckoned call every day. I spend all weekend at home doing stuff to help around the house or renovations. He'll I'm building her dream car in the garage.
She is a stay at home mom. When things are good. They're awesome but EVERYTHING had better be just right. Down to my business decisions. She would hurt us financially to not do business with someone she doesn't like. She's very black and white, doesn't have many friends and when she makes new friends it's only a matter of time until they've done her wrong and she completely cuts ties. I have alienated damn near every one in my life because either she doesn't like their spouse or they were tacky to her one time.
Like I said. I'm sure I'm not the worlds best but I consider my self thoughtful. Caring somewhat attractive and very complimentary to her. She is very hot. 6ft blond with a great body. I'm pudgy and going to quit drinking and get back to working out. But this is the last damn thing I will give up for her. I've quit everything I've ever liked because she found fault in it somewhere some how.
Thanks. Sorry so long
D
My wife had plenty to be resentful towards me for. Lately I have been drinking a little too heavy and being messier around the house. We are rarely having sex. We've addressed the drinking a few times. I quit for 6 weeks or so then come back lightly and eventually push it too far again. I do not get drunk and hurt or say anything mean. I like a couple pints a night after a long hard day in the oil field.
Now to why I think she's Borderline. Every fight we've ever had she is horrifically mean to me. Telling me to **** off go **** myself I'm a child and have no business being a family man. She belittles me to the point that I do feel like a child.
We have a 4 yo together that I'm crazy about. She has two kids from a very abusive marriage. He cheat and beat on her. So she tells me. Now. I send the middle step kid to private high school and just bought the college kid a car. We have a nice house and nice things. A new car. Everything she could need. I come home pretty early most days I never go out with friends and am at her beckoned call every day. I spend all weekend at home doing stuff to help around the house or renovations. He'll I'm building her dream car in the garage.
She is a stay at home mom. When things are good. They're awesome but EVERYTHING had better be just right. Down to my business decisions. She would hurt us financially to not do business with someone she doesn't like. She's very black and white, doesn't have many friends and when she makes new friends it's only a matter of time until they've done her wrong and she completely cuts ties. I have alienated damn near every one in my life because either she doesn't like their spouse or they were tacky to her one time.
Like I said. I'm sure I'm not the worlds best but I consider my self thoughtful. Caring somewhat attractive and very complimentary to her. She is very hot. 6ft blond with a great body. I'm pudgy and going to quit drinking and get back to working out. But this is the last damn thing I will give up for her. I've quit everything I've ever liked because she found fault in it somewhere some how.
Thanks. Sorry so long
D
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