My husband and I married young when I just turned 21, We fell in love very quickly and married after nine months of dating, Now 7yrs later we are still together and I love him so much. My husband has been through a lot in his life, He moved out at a young age with his mother due to his dads past alcoholism, He took care of his mom before she died, he is and ex-Marine who lost many brothers in arms and now he was just a sad, lost, angry man who didn't deserve all this suffering he has gone through, He is now 33 and has become involved in professional fighting and has talked me into moving back to this hometown which we did just before Christmas. Before we moved back my husband didn't see his dad for 14yrs, When I eventually convinced him to visit his dad.
His dad has been sober for 3yrs and seemed a nice guy but my husband was still very angry and bitter about his father's former abusive behaviour, He failed to convince my husband that he has truly changed and it hurt his dad, I felt sorry for him. His dad wants to help train my hubby for fights etc but he wont allow him saying he doesn't want to reconcile their relationship. When I try hard to ask him to give his dad a chance we end up arguing and he gets really aggravated about me "taking his dad's side" which im not, Twice he has walked out of the house when I tried talking to him about it. He keeps telling me that I am all he has in life and he cant handle knowing "I don't have his back on this" which is a lie, I know deep down he misses his dad and to make peace with the past because it still torchers him. Any advice, Am I in the wrong here?
His dad has been sober for 3yrs and seemed a nice guy but my husband was still very angry and bitter about his father's former abusive behaviour, He failed to convince my husband that he has truly changed and it hurt his dad, I felt sorry for him. His dad wants to help train my hubby for fights etc but he wont allow him saying he doesn't want to reconcile their relationship. When I try hard to ask him to give his dad a chance we end up arguing and he gets really aggravated about me "taking his dad's side" which im not, Twice he has walked out of the house when I tried talking to him about it. He keeps telling me that I am all he has in life and he cant handle knowing "I don't have his back on this" which is a lie, I know deep down he misses his dad and to make peace with the past because it still torchers him. Any advice, Am I in the wrong here?
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