Hey everyone. Trust issues have pretty much ruined any potential relationships for me. I've met many girls who've been interested in me but i'm always to hesitant to respond in kind. I've rejected 8 girls who have asked me out due to that reason. My problem is that I have trouble letting people in and having seen so many people close to me being cheated on /having been betrayed and how none of the relationships seem to last, there seems to be no way to let that go.
Once any girl starts wanting to go from flirting and a casual thing to a serious relationship I immediately start panicking and withdraw. This leaves the girl feeling as if i've been leading her on and she starts hating me and so do her friends. The process repeats.
The only thing that seems to be happening is that i'm getting more and more lonely, withdrawn and depressed and more and more people are starting to hate me.
So to sum it up : Attracting someone seems to be doable for me, but holding on to them is an impossibility.
Any idea on what to do ?
Once any girl starts wanting to go from flirting and a casual thing to a serious relationship I immediately start panicking and withdraw. This leaves the girl feeling as if i've been leading her on and she starts hating me and so do her friends. The process repeats.
The only thing that seems to be happening is that i'm getting more and more lonely, withdrawn and depressed and more and more people are starting to hate me.
So to sum it up : Attracting someone seems to be doable for me, but holding on to them is an impossibility.
Any idea on what to do ?
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