Good morning - this is the first time I talk about my relationship on a forum, but I am at a lost for words and confused and frustrated. I was a single mother raising my 4 children -now all grown and had been wanting to meet someone whom I would share the rest of my life with, After 12 years alone- I met a wonderful man whom I have been in a relationship for the past 2 1/2 yrs since the beginning our sex was not all that because he is taking a slew of medications which I am sure has affected his sexual drive; he had just gotten out of a long term marriage; I thought that maybe over time things would improve in our sex life -
For the past 1-1/2 he has since moved in with me as he has no place to live - and continues to take his meds/sleep - Now our sex life is literally non existent and when I try to insinuate having relations he shrugs off and says I am a nympho; "Yes I am a nympho if you just want foreplay for 1/2 and 15 minutes of P -if its not flaccid; after that one day -forget about sex for another one to 2 wks..ughhh if I come home tired from 3rd shift and want to play as we have not had sex in 5 day- Nope..forget that notion. I work over 60 hours a wk come home and take care of house yes I might want to have something when the kids are out and we have the house to ourselves. We have separated twice and he has come back and I have taken him back with hopes of improvement - last month he remember that he had not had relations with me for the past 7 days when during my sleep I was wanting him - so the next day he told me I feel bad I guess I have gone too long.. You think??
Help what should I do.. should I continue with this charade at 51years old I still look good and Im not ready to give up on sex
..Is it normal for a man to only want sex once a wk?? and cuddle for the rest??? I cant take it anymore I'm ready to freak.. and honestly don't want to snap or possibly cheating; and I don't want that
and very few and in between sexual life; When we first started dating he was and has always been very caring and loving; however, when it comes to the BR all he wanted to do was cuddle and maybe once or twice a week have relations; I am Latina and although we are both 51 years old.. I know I have a higher sex drive and soon started realizing that all he wanted to do was cuddle at night - I asked my doctor for sleeping pills and anxiety pills to help me with the lack of sex -I'm not one to take meds, but thought this would help as I love him; ask me to seek medical help to get me on a nightly regimen
For the past 1-1/2 he has since moved in with me as he has no place to live - and continues to take his meds/sleep - Now our sex life is literally non existent and when I try to insinuate having relations he shrugs off and says I am a nympho; "Yes I am a nympho if you just want foreplay for 1/2 and 15 minutes of P -if its not flaccid; after that one day -forget about sex for another one to 2 wks..ughhh if I come home tired from 3rd shift and want to play as we have not had sex in 5 day- Nope..forget that notion. I work over 60 hours a wk come home and take care of house yes I might want to have something when the kids are out and we have the house to ourselves. We have separated twice and he has come back and I have taken him back with hopes of improvement - last month he remember that he had not had relations with me for the past 7 days when during my sleep I was wanting him - so the next day he told me I feel bad I guess I have gone too long.. You think??
Help what should I do.. should I continue with this charade at 51years old I still look good and Im not ready to give up on sex
..Is it normal for a man to only want sex once a wk?? and cuddle for the rest??? I cant take it anymore I'm ready to freak.. and honestly don't want to snap or possibly cheating; and I don't want that
and very few and in between sexual life; When we first started dating he was and has always been very caring and loving; however, when it comes to the BR all he wanted to do was cuddle and maybe once or twice a week have relations; I am Latina and although we are both 51 years old.. I know I have a higher sex drive and soon started realizing that all he wanted to do was cuddle at night - I asked my doctor for sleeping pills and anxiety pills to help me with the lack of sex -I'm not one to take meds, but thought this would help as I love him; ask me to seek medical help to get me on a nightly regimen
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