Simple.
My good buddy has been married for 4 years, and whilst chatting about marriage and how his has become rather lacking I jokingly said tel her "put out or get out" and after him taking the time to rearrange the finances and adjust the potential fall out in his favor he went and read MMSLP among other books I recommended and realized where it was going wrong.
Success, put out or get out worked for him, quite simply, he stated that anything less than twice a week was not on and if she made excuses she needed to pack her bags.
My instant question was "do you actually want to get divorced?" and he said that he would rather get divorced than to turn up here complaining about not getting any and suffering in silence for years like so many others.
He reports that she is now showing willingness to explore their intimacy further, not going there, he can do what he wants but I don't have to know LOL
Anyone else tried this approach?
My good buddy has been married for 4 years, and whilst chatting about marriage and how his has become rather lacking I jokingly said tel her "put out or get out" and after him taking the time to rearrange the finances and adjust the potential fall out in his favor he went and read MMSLP among other books I recommended and realized where it was going wrong.
Success, put out or get out worked for him, quite simply, he stated that anything less than twice a week was not on and if she made excuses she needed to pack her bags.
My instant question was "do you actually want to get divorced?" and he said that he would rather get divorced than to turn up here complaining about not getting any and suffering in silence for years like so many others.
He reports that she is now showing willingness to explore their intimacy further, not going there, he can do what he wants but I don't have to know LOL
Anyone else tried this approach?
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