I need help. I am extremely miserable with my marriage of 10 years and 2 great kids. I will try to keep this short.
Wife has lost 5 jobs in a matter of a few years. Drinks every night. Sex, none. And on that subject, sex is only when I initiate it. Never touched. Wife does absolutely nothing around the house. And I mean nothing. Cant even put the dishes in the washer. The only thing good here I can say is she does the homework extremely well with the boys. I feel so neglected and unappreciated.
I am considering divorce, but I do not know if I can do that with my kids.
Am I cheating. No, but someone has caught my eye and that is it.
Not sure what I am looking for here on this forum, we have mutual friends, so it is very hard for me to talk to them.
I am a fireman and work 24 hr shifts, and no, she is not cheating. At least not that I know of and if she was Im not sure if I would even know, but my gut says no on wife cheating on me.
Point here is I put 100% into this marriage and have held this family together for over 5 years now and I am at the end of my rope.
Any suggestions or like story's, actually, anything at all would help me understand what is going on.
Wife has lost 5 jobs in a matter of a few years. Drinks every night. Sex, none. And on that subject, sex is only when I initiate it. Never touched. Wife does absolutely nothing around the house. And I mean nothing. Cant even put the dishes in the washer. The only thing good here I can say is she does the homework extremely well with the boys. I feel so neglected and unappreciated.
I am considering divorce, but I do not know if I can do that with my kids.
Am I cheating. No, but someone has caught my eye and that is it.
Not sure what I am looking for here on this forum, we have mutual friends, so it is very hard for me to talk to them.
I am a fireman and work 24 hr shifts, and no, she is not cheating. At least not that I know of and if she was Im not sure if I would even know, but my gut says no on wife cheating on me.
Point here is I put 100% into this marriage and have held this family together for over 5 years now and I am at the end of my rope.
Any suggestions or like story's, actually, anything at all would help me understand what is going on.
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