My husband is 6'6 and I'm 5'7 although I am not sure if our heights have much to do with the problem we face in the bedroom. Its always been a problem too. I've talked to him about it and tried to get him to listen to me but it just never works when we actually start having sex. My husband has Asperger's so I'm thinking this might have something to do with how he likes having sex. I'm honestly not sure though. During sex he will put all of his weight on me and it gets to the point so that I cannot breathe. I literally have to tell him to get off me because it hurts too much. He simply won't support himself with his arms and he makes these weird sporadic movements as well which are in no way appealing or pleasurable to me. We've been married for a year now and our sex life has not improved at all. When I approach him with how I feel he usually is silent and then we go for weeks with no sex. I've never tried to make him feel bad about it. In fact, I'd love to be to teach him how to have better sex with me and try to make it fun for him but he's not interested in doing it any other way. As soon as we start having sex, no matter how much I've talked to him about how I don't like how he does it, he goes right back to his old ways. I'm so frustrated because sex is not pleasurable for me anymore. Any advice on what I can do?
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