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Assuming the hair is clean and not thinning, does it matter what style the person has? Would you take hairstyle into consideration when dating guys?
E.g. If two similar guys, one with a basic 1 minute side-part and one with a perfect 20 minute quiff asked you out, which one would you choose?
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A girl in my A level year asked to meet me today and when I met her I could tell she was very upset she told me she felt very lonely and not included in things and then started crying into my chest and hugging me. Needless to say I realise what a fool I have been for not realising that just because I am popular and everything is going great for me, others might not be as happy. I told her, me and my friends would make more of an effort to include her and we will start sitting with her at lunch and walking with her. Nonetheless, I was an idiot and is there anything else I can do to make her feel more included?
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Quick note: Nothing between myself and this teacher is going to happen! And I understand how serious this could be etc
He wasn't meant to find out but my friends (idiots) thought it would be 'funny'. So he's around 23 Years of age and I myself am in year 11. He doesn't teach me however his classroom is next door and I do go to his classes after school.
As soon as my friends turned my face to him and said 'You know you like him, look at him' he immediately looked away. (He never even noticed me before this)
Anyway later on during the same lesson, he walked past again and while he did, he looked at me straight in the eye for a good few seconds with a grumpy face before looking away. I could actually feel how annoyed he must have been.
The next time I saw him after that day was when I had to go past his class with a few class members. He was in the middle of talking and I could see him turning to look at us and then keep his eyes on me until I was out of sight (I could see this from the corner of my eyes).
This became a regular thing and I still had to attend his sessions because I had to act like everything was still normal. When I entered he just saw me and looked down (same grumpy face lol)
My friend began to ask him to give me a new clay canvass and he came up to us and asked what's wrong (my friend did all the talking since things were awkward between myself and him) and he asked her why I needed a new one and she answered 'just' and so he looked at me and asked the same question 'What's wrong with it?' (He believed there was nothing wrong with it and it is still ok to use) and I responded with 'There's nothing wrong with it' since I personally thought my friend was being ridiculous. However he started to laugh with me and said 'Exactly, she's just going on and on!'
Later on I asked him for more clay so he got up and gave me some new clay as any teacher would. After that lesson when me and my friend decided to call it a day, he turned around and said 'Bye! Thanks for coming again' and looked at both of us, however when he looked at me he smiled the most warmest smile I've ever seen. I know it was real as he had some crows feet going on at the end of his eyes. So when I responded with a bye and was too shy to smile back ,he then called out bye once more before I left.
I saw him again about 30 minutes later in my mums car (she popped out to the shop) he was walking home and I was playing on my phone so I didn't see him before. Just as soon as I looked up I saw him turn around looking directly towards my car and at me through the window screen (he must have saw the car first before recognising me) and I looked away nervously and he just turned away again and carried on walking.
I have also caught him stare at me through a reflective window that I was facing whilst I had my back turned towards him, so he thought I couldn't see. And I mean he was full on staring, until he remembered the window and when he saw me staring at him, he looked away really quickly.
Another time was when he was speaking to another member of staff and I stopped to look behind him in case I could quickly tip toe across since it was a short cut to a class (however we are not allowed to take that root). He saw me stop and when I did he just stopped talking to the other woman (member of staff) and just stopped to look at me (maybe he thought I needed to speak to him) however he was literally in the middle of a convo and he just... Stopped. She noticed his attention went off completely so she turned to look and saw me standing there now staring back at him #awkward.
He he carried on staring at me and she was stood their looking confused looking at him then me and then back again. Until I decided to take the long root after all and walked another way.
After this, I've noticed this woman staring at me. And I know she is suspicious now because she was even staring when I was walking home with my friends and she was on a car at the back seat. She was really staring and I even said to my friends 'What is she staring at?'
This teacher has started to tease me a little as well (my crush) and it's probably not in a flirtatious way. He just laughs at me if I do something stupid like when I entered the room for his after school sessions and he turned and said 'Hi girls!'
To myself and my friend and I responded with a hi. Then he asked if I was staying and since I just came back from an exam so I was a little headed and I hadn't actually thought if I was staying or not yet (cuz I only planned to collect the art book but I was still uncertain) so I just hesitated a little and said 'Ummm... Yeah' He burst out laughing and said 'Why are you thinking about it for?' So I grumply responded 'What?' Since I was knackered, and he was like 'Well it's a simple question isn't it? You just say yes or no' he was still laughing and he realised I was actually grumpy he stopped.
So recently we had a mock exam and I'm not lying when I say he has been staring at me again, and then looking away like it was nothing. I've caught him at least three times looking directly at me and then turning away as soon as I notice.
One of which was a side stare to make it less obvious.
Also so I was outside the staff room one time knocking on the door and from behind someone asked 'Who are you looking for?' It was that woman again. I was looking for my Englush teacher so I asked her where she was and she said how she's 'Not in today' while we were still talking, the teacher I like appears and walks past to get into the staff room. I was next to the door that leads to the staff room so when he reached the door he stopped and took a glance at me because I began to laugh a little at something and he could hear me from under my breathe. After about a second of taking a look at my face he looked back at the door handle and opened it to make his way into the staff room.
Im finally done, let me know what you think is up with him. I forgot to add that I saw him another time in the car when My mum was driving past and noticed our car and then looked away in case I see him, then looked back again after turning around until to see us go.
I'm just trying to figure him out. Overall he's a very professional teacher.
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I'm an 18 year old guy in my first year at uni, not the best looking lad but take care of myself appearance wise and would say that I look the best that I can.
I enjoy the whole club 'scene' but have a bit of trouble fitting in sometimes (maybe I'm being hard on myself?) - I'm pretty sure when a girl is interested but I'm awful at approaching and I wouldn't say that the lads I go there with (mainly flatmates) are the best people to be with at times so I have trouble support wise...
The other thing is I know myself I'm absolutely terrible at dancing, don't really have an idea what to do and when I do I get the vibe from others that its way excessive, could this be seen as 'gay'? (no discrimination intended at all here, and I am straight for the purpose of this discussion)
I know TSR is probably one of weirdest places to ask for this kind of advice but hey I'll give it a shot!
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There's a girl I've totally fell for, I knew her since my primary school days. I wouldn't say we were that close before but we've talked quite a lot on Facebook recently & I did meet up for a few months ago. She's so beautiful but I realised that she just doesn't see me the same way. She said I was decent enough guy & I make her laugh & stuff but still, I expressed my feelings towards her & she really didn't offer me much hope that there might be a chance really :o
In conversation she has said she still has some feelings towards her ex & well I just said you're such a sweet girl who I just want to see happy (even though deep inside it will break my heart to see her with another guy :moon:) I think about her too much & keep & looking at her photos & feels like she is connecting to me when I do it but I realise that we're just not compatible. I said something cheesy like I'd rather have you as a friend than lose you totally but now I'm not too sure as I just feel have this burning desire atm. Like you know when you really want something that you can't have? :o What do you think I should do :erm: I appreciate your time, thanks :)
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Tbh it's a difficult situation I mean we was only together for around 2 months the first month was great the 2nd was rocky and I could sense that this was coming so it's been like a month of preparing for it mentally at the point when it happened I was kind of already at the point where I had been through being upset about it and was at the stage of accepting it for the rocky part she was acting quite cold and distant so I didn't even really want to be in a relationship with her because she wasn't the loving girl I feel in love with anymore.
Thing is we spoke and the convo was fine we spoke for 2hrs I asked her why was she being cold and distant does she still want to be in a relationship and then she opened up and said she feels like she rushed into it she just broke up with her ex and we got together within like a week after. It was all pretty intense very quickly her telling me she loved me after 2 weeks etc so the signs and red flags were there. We spoke it over and I agreed that she wasn't in a place to be in a serious relationship we pretty much got over the serious talk pretty quickly and spent the other hour and half laughing and catching up because we hadn't spoken properly in a while because of these unresolved issues.
Tbh I gave of the impression that it was fine n that I was over it because tbh that's how I felt I mean I was expecting it she seemed kind of taken aback because I seemed fine with it tbh I didn't do that as a tactic I honestly felt fine and glad we finally aired it out. She said in the future if things are different and shes in a better place because she said she was in a lonely place after she split with her ex we cAn maybe try again I said yeah who knows the future I ain't holding my breath or holding out on that tbh because that's a recipe for disaster. But anyway I'm seeing her tomorrow she still wants us to "see each other" but not be in a relationship I don't know what that means tbh if that means she still wants us to have sex etc but without commitment tbh I'm fine with that as long as it doesn't bother me but I'm not sure if it will tbh.
I'm seeing her tomorrow she said she wants to come see me to hang out, what should I do, should I atleast try to just see her instead of cutting her of I don't really think I need to because it's not that painful and also she hasn't done anything to me or given me a reason to hate her or anything it's pretty much jus bad timing so should I give it a shot or am I just putting myself in a position to get hurt?
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