Hi I'm having trouble figuring out wether this guy likes me or not and I'd really like some help to try and understand him..
Basically I work in a bar on a Friday as a bard maid and the guy is the dj We are in our 20's
I came out of a relationship about 2 months ago now so before that I wasn't intrested in him as I had a boyfriend after he found out I had broke up with my boyfriend I began to realise he was been really flirty with me at work over his mic he had started to shout out things when it was quiet that all the other staff could her but everyone knew they were aimed at me some been more obvious than others, over a couple of weeks these shout outs got more and more frequent so after finishing work one night I popped up on Facebook and told him to stop in a jokey way..he replying with some of them kissy face emojis and told me he needed something to do we chatted for abit it was light convesation but we chatted most of the weekend till I stopped replying on the Sunday then that was it all week that Friday I got in to work our work has 2 bars and he was djing both floors early on he was down stairs and j was upstairs and he started on his Mike shouting out aimed at me where everyone co uld hear over both floors he was doing it all night this time then the following day he drove past me in his car next minute popped up to me on Facebook initiating convesation this time he stopped the convesation and we only swapped a few messages on the Saturday. The following Friday the manager who usually dropped me off at home was on holiday so the dj had over heard some of the other bar staff talking about how I was going to get home at the end of the night he came over and asked if I needed a lift I told him not if it was out of his way he said it wasn't made up some excuse about him having to sort his sleeping pattern out anyway and waited half an hour while we cleaned up he had pulled his car to the from of the club to put his stuff in it and opened the door for me to get in he apologised for the mess of his car and started to tidy it abit before I got in and then after he dropped me off he asked if I needed him to wait for me to get in to my house I said no and told him to let me know when he was home safe, this time we talked till Monday I felt like he was looking for reasons to talk to me as he asked if I fancied taking photos on his camera on a Friday smfor social media I said yes and the convesation started to die off so I stopped it again we didn't talk anymore tough the week, got there on Friday everything was exactly the same he was flirty on the mic he called me over to his dj booth to show me how to use his camera and let me do it then at the end of the night he asked if I needed a lift I said no politely as the manger was now back and so he left and then popped up to me on Facebook to talk to me after leaving I started been abit more flirty and told him he was cute and a really nice guy he thanked me and stuff and then he stopped replying again we didn't talk for the rest of the week. Then Friday 10 mins before he started his shift he popped up asking if he should bring his camera we talked a little and the. I say his at wor k he seemed abit more relaxed around me and talked to me slightly more in person I also noticed he smelled nice he called me over to his booth and started a convesation with me then because the club was dead he started messaging me on Facebook from accords the room and airing some of my reply a over the mic we were swapping quite a few messages and then they continued when we got home then again he stopped the convesation so in an attempt to talk to him more I messaged him the other day been flirty he was at work so he replied later on we swapped a few messages and the. He stopped again I spent all week worrying that I'd done or said something wrong and then 10 minutes before his shift he popped up saying 'are you in tonight beautiful' all that worry was for nothing and I got to work and everything was fine he was flirty as always and he popped up to chat to me when it was quiet at the end of the night he said by to me and the other staff and then popped up on Facebook to sa y bye again just after he'd left I highlighted that he's already said bye and said he was just looking for reasons to message me he replyed with a row of smiley faces in which I replyed that I was only joking he the. Furthered the conversation so I felt it nesesary to reply and then he just stopped the convesation just like that.. It just confuses me despite his job he isn't the player type as that's the type I'd ushaly be intrested in he has morels and a lot of respect for girls but if he liked me surly hed like to carry on the convesation I feel like he feels he needs a reason to talk to me and it needs to be about work please help because I really like him so I don't know wether it's in my head or not thank you in advance x
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