Hi all. New user here. I just don't know who to turn to. I've searched on the internet for help and here is where it took me. It seems like a lot of people can chime in and help me out because I really need it.
My wife and I have been married for 3 years. We have been together for 7 years. My wife is 10 years older than me. With a little hiccup in between and i'll explain later on.
My wife and I are having problems right now. I know done her wrong and I just want her back. My wife has found multiple times porn or naked women on my phone. She had told me those multiple times that what I'm doing is wrong and is essentially cheating. I never looked at it that way and I kept on doing it. Well this time it stuck and I told her that I won't do it again ever and she won't believe me. I've been to her work and gave her flowers. I have written her a love letter. Put rose peddles on our bed. And more flowers. I give a massage even though she doesn't ask for it. I help her out in the kitchen when she's cooking. Helping her in anyway I can. I'm trying to be more attentive to her. She says it's not enough and I don't know what else to do.
A little more of a background. My wife is a firecracker. She's the strong one in the relationship and she doesn't like that. I'm emotional. I cry when it gets to much in our relationship. She doesn't like that. She says she wants a man and i'm not one. She calls me a p****y. Or that I have no balls.
I've lied to her also. Stupid things too. Or I tend to forget if a coworker calls me and she tells me why I didn't tell her. She gets mad.
My work requires me to sometimes stay a little extra to get things finished. She gets mad because I shouldn't put my work first and she should be a priority. I told her that my work pays the bills and it's important too.
On the day my wife found the last naked woman, my company was having an outing and I decided to go. My wife got mad because I told her I needed to clear my mind and take a break and go. She got furious because she says I should have chased her and fixed things.
A few years ago, when we were not married, I felt unappreciated and I left my life. Up and left and said nothing to her. A few months went by and we reconciled. But she still holds it against me. At the time also, I was talking to another woman and she found out and flipped.
Before we got married. I had reservations on getting married. I told her that. I told her she has anger issues. She got very mad. But I still love her and we still got married. I said to myself, if I love this woman, I have to accept her.
I can go on and on about the issues. That's just a snippet and what's going on. As I type, im sitting in my car at a starbucks because my wife kicked me out for the 4th time. Please help. I don't know what to do.
Sorry if I just rambled. My mind is just scrambled right now. I'm hoping I got out enough info.
Thanks in advance.
My wife and I have been married for 3 years. We have been together for 7 years. My wife is 10 years older than me. With a little hiccup in between and i'll explain later on.
My wife and I are having problems right now. I know done her wrong and I just want her back. My wife has found multiple times porn or naked women on my phone. She had told me those multiple times that what I'm doing is wrong and is essentially cheating. I never looked at it that way and I kept on doing it. Well this time it stuck and I told her that I won't do it again ever and she won't believe me. I've been to her work and gave her flowers. I have written her a love letter. Put rose peddles on our bed. And more flowers. I give a massage even though she doesn't ask for it. I help her out in the kitchen when she's cooking. Helping her in anyway I can. I'm trying to be more attentive to her. She says it's not enough and I don't know what else to do.
A little more of a background. My wife is a firecracker. She's the strong one in the relationship and she doesn't like that. I'm emotional. I cry when it gets to much in our relationship. She doesn't like that. She says she wants a man and i'm not one. She calls me a p****y. Or that I have no balls.
I've lied to her also. Stupid things too. Or I tend to forget if a coworker calls me and she tells me why I didn't tell her. She gets mad.
My work requires me to sometimes stay a little extra to get things finished. She gets mad because I shouldn't put my work first and she should be a priority. I told her that my work pays the bills and it's important too.
On the day my wife found the last naked woman, my company was having an outing and I decided to go. My wife got mad because I told her I needed to clear my mind and take a break and go. She got furious because she says I should have chased her and fixed things.
A few years ago, when we were not married, I felt unappreciated and I left my life. Up and left and said nothing to her. A few months went by and we reconciled. But she still holds it against me. At the time also, I was talking to another woman and she found out and flipped.
Before we got married. I had reservations on getting married. I told her that. I told her she has anger issues. She got very mad. But I still love her and we still got married. I said to myself, if I love this woman, I have to accept her.
I can go on and on about the issues. That's just a snippet and what's going on. As I type, im sitting in my car at a starbucks because my wife kicked me out for the 4th time. Please help. I don't know what to do.
Sorry if I just rambled. My mind is just scrambled right now. I'm hoping I got out enough info.
Thanks in advance.
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