This is not to piss anyone off. I am really interested in hearing how anyone may feel about this. This is not a joke but a genuine question that I would like to be enlightened on
I have always believed that a man that is supposed to provide and protect his family. The man should work and not be lazy and that it should be his joy to provide. That is what makes a man feel like more of a man (supposedly).
But these days it seems like men dont want to provide. They want women that will work also and pay the bills, tend to the children and keep everything in order. They are looking for sugar mamas. I have actually heard men say how they need a woman with money.
What makes a man fit to be head of household when there is a woman who does just as much as he does? women are very capable of providing and making decisions for the family as a whole. However it seems that men only want the title of head of household because they think they should have it. Okay, it might be written in the bible that men are supposed to lead, but if you aren't able to provide for your family how are you leading? Do you feel that you are truly head of the home when your wife makes more money than you? Is that even an issue?( i believe it is) Time and time again I have asked what makes men more capable or more suited to head the household and have yet to get a straight answer that makes sense to me. The best answer my bf could come up with is that someone has to make a final decision about things. LOL yeah okay. I am perfectly capable of making my own decisions
Women own guns, shoot them, run corporations, and take care of their children too and still find time to please their men.
So why are men thought to be better at heading the household again??
I have always believed that a man that is supposed to provide and protect his family. The man should work and not be lazy and that it should be his joy to provide. That is what makes a man feel like more of a man (supposedly).
But these days it seems like men dont want to provide. They want women that will work also and pay the bills, tend to the children and keep everything in order. They are looking for sugar mamas. I have actually heard men say how they need a woman with money.
What makes a man fit to be head of household when there is a woman who does just as much as he does? women are very capable of providing and making decisions for the family as a whole. However it seems that men only want the title of head of household because they think they should have it. Okay, it might be written in the bible that men are supposed to lead, but if you aren't able to provide for your family how are you leading? Do you feel that you are truly head of the home when your wife makes more money than you? Is that even an issue?( i believe it is) Time and time again I have asked what makes men more capable or more suited to head the household and have yet to get a straight answer that makes sense to me. The best answer my bf could come up with is that someone has to make a final decision about things. LOL yeah okay. I am perfectly capable of making my own decisions
Women own guns, shoot them, run corporations, and take care of their children too and still find time to please their men.
So why are men thought to be better at heading the household again??
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