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Im going to start with a premise, and then with that as a foundation get into this topic.
In a healthy marriage your spouse should ALWAYS have 'right of first refusal' regarding sexual activity.
That means you should both maximize the amount of sexual interaction you have with each other.
That said, over the course of a lifetime partnership there will be periods of desire imbalance. And when those happen the HD spouse has excess sexual energy. They can either walk around tense and edgy or engage in 'self service'.
Porn and vibrators simply amplify the self service experience.
The reason I see them as equivalent is simple. When you're using a prop to maximize your 'self service' experience you're thinking about whatever makes you the MOST turned on. This is pure fantasy stuff, which means it's not always your spouse.
So - whether you're vibrating to thoughts of Gerard Butler, or watching a porn star - what's the difference?
And FWIW - as long as your self service activities aren't at the expense of your spouse - as long as they are simply excess sexual energy - they seem harmless to me.
Im going to start with a premise, and then with that as a foundation get into this topic.
In a healthy marriage your spouse should ALWAYS have 'right of first refusal' regarding sexual activity.
That means you should both maximize the amount of sexual interaction you have with each other.
That said, over the course of a lifetime partnership there will be periods of desire imbalance. And when those happen the HD spouse has excess sexual energy. They can either walk around tense and edgy or engage in 'self service'.
Porn and vibrators simply amplify the self service experience.
The reason I see them as equivalent is simple. When you're using a prop to maximize your 'self service' experience you're thinking about whatever makes you the MOST turned on. This is pure fantasy stuff, which means it's not always your spouse.
So - whether you're vibrating to thoughts of Gerard Butler, or watching a porn star - what's the difference?
And FWIW - as long as your self service activities aren't at the expense of your spouse - as long as they are simply excess sexual energy - they seem harmless to me.
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